But we really just view our relationship as a super flexible organism that is that is constantly shifting and adapting Oh, uh, oh, oh, oh, The Hey, hey everybody. I'm back. It's been an interesting month. I had a great time in Montana. I'm going to do a

a Roma about what's been going on

include some photos, some videos, updates on all that.

That'll be coming soon later this week. So I won't get into it too much right now. But I had a great time in Montana. Fantastic. Met some really cool people. We ended up staying a week extra because

Anya and Nadia were doing a yoga teacher training movement course. while I was kind of lingering around. It was really

interesting. Like I said I'll have a full Roma about that and some other things.

It's kind of like, I feel like taking a summer break

feels very organic because when I come back, it's like going back to school in September.

That always felt like the beginning of the year to me.

The whole January being the beginning of the year kind of never really felt right because it was in the middle of a season.

It wasn't like a change of seasons.

And I don't know, maybe it's just a cultural thing, but I, you know, growing up that whole summer break and then go back to school in September and you meet the new teachers and, you know, whatever you're in new classes this whole thing that felt somehow more organic but maybe it wasn't organic I don't know maybe it's just cultural but in any case it still lingers it's like those dreams you have of not being prepared for

the exam that you know I'm 62 years old I still have them sometimes so I guess

that's ingrained in my brain. It's a brain in grain. Anyway, this episode is a really good one. This is with a couple, they call themselves the evolving love project that's the name of their

podcast and sub-stack page and other social media stuff they're Australian Abbey and Liam and

they're Australian, Abbey and Liam.

They're, I don't know, they must be in their mid-30s, maybe,

they look a lot younger than that, but they've been together over a decade and they have an open

relationship they haven't always had an open relationship but they sort of moved into it and they're kindred spirits as far as I'm concerned

because they see sexuality as a way to explore other things. I think I don't know if it was

Freud who said that everything is about sex except sex which is about power.

Interesting sort of formulation of that, but I do feel like sexuality I've always felt this way is a window

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