612: How to Solve the Toughest Problems, with Wendy Smith
Coaching for Leaders
Dave Stachowiak
4.8 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 16 January 2023
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
Wendy Smith: Both/And Thinking
Wendy Smith is the Dana J. Johnson Professor of Management and faculty director of the Women’s Leadership Initiative at the Lerner College of Business and Economics, University of Delaware. She earned her PhD in organizational behavior at Harvard Business School, where she began her intensive research on strategic paradoxes—how leaders and senior teams effectively respond to contradictory, yet interdependent demands. She has received the Web of Science Highly Cited Research Award for being among the 1 percent most-cited researchers in her field and received the Decade Award from the Academy of Management Review for the most cited paper in the past 10 years.
Her work has been published in such journals as Academy of Management Journal, Administrative Science Quarterly, Harvard Business Review, Organization Science, and Management Science. She has taught at the University of Delaware, Harvard, and Wharton while helping senior leaders and middle managers all over the world address issues of interpersonal dynamics, team performance, organizational change, and innovation. She is the author with Marianne Lewis of Both/And Thinking: Embracing Creative Tensions to Solve Your Toughest Problems.
In this episode, Wendy and I discuss the dangers of either/or thinking and how that tendency limits our effectiveness. We explore how to shift to both/and thinking in order to resolve the most challenging problems. Plus, we share key tactics that will help us do this in more practical ways.
Key Points
- Framing a decision as an either/or will often minimize short-term anxiety, but limits creative and innovative long-term possibilities.
- While easy to see both/and opportunities for others, we’re likely to approach things as either/or when it’s ourselves. An outside perspective from someone who’s not emotionally connected is helpful.
- Changing the question we are asking is the most powerful to navigate paradoxes.
- Moving up a level when facing tough decisions can help us see the big picture.
- Consider shifting from “making a choice” to “choosing” in order to lead us towards better outcomes.
Resources Mentioned
- Both/And Thinking: Embracing Creative Tensions to Solve Your Toughest Problems* by Wendy Smith and Marianne Lewis
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| 0:00.0 | Do I invest in someone or should I let them go? |
| 0:03.6 | Are we migrating to the new system or do we keep using what we have? |
| 0:08.2 | Many of the questions that we post to others and ourselves are framed this way as either |
| 0:13.8 | or's. |
| 0:15.0 | In this episode, how to move beyond either or to do better at solving the toughest problems? |
| 0:21.6 | This is Coaching for Leaders Episode 612. |
| 0:25.8 | Introduced by Innovate Learning, Maximizing Human Potential. |
| 0:34.2 | Greetings to you from Orange County, California. |
| 0:37.0 | This is Coaching for Leaders and I'm your host, Dave Stahofiac. |
| 0:42.2 | Leaders aren't born. |
| 0:43.8 | They're made. |
| 0:44.8 | And this weekly show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. |
| 0:50.8 | Leaders of course are always solving the problems, addressing problems in a way that |
| 0:56.4 | hopefully helps us to look at things holistically to make the best choice for ourselves and |
| 1:01.2 | for our organizations. |
| 1:03.0 | And how do we do it in a way that is most helpful, especially when we get into those toughest |
| 1:07.5 | situations? |
| 1:08.5 | Today, I'm so glad to welcome an expert that will help us to navigate solving the toughest |
| 1:13.4 | problems. |
| 1:14.4 | I'm so pleased to introduce to you Wendy Smith. |
| 1:16.6 | She is the Dana J Johnson Professor of Management and Faculty Director of the Women's Leadership |
| 1:21.2 | Initiative at the Learner College of Business and Economics at the University of Delaware. |
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