61. The Closure One ft. Abby Medcalf

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Ali Jackson

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.2 • 659 Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2022

⏱️ 98 minutes

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Summary

She blinded us with science! Ali & Roark are joined by Dr. Abby Medcalf – a psychologist who tells them all about how the brain affects our relationships. The focus of the conversation is closure – what is it, why do we want it, and how can we get – but Abby goes much further and they probably could have talked for hours because she is so darn lovely and interesting. During Updates, Roark recounts an epic Phone Throwing Moment in her friend-group group chat, and Ali goes on a first date and gives a Disco Ball status report.

Timestamps: Weird or Nah and Topic Talk begins at around 27:00

Where to find Abby: at her website https://abbymedcalf.com/about/

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0:00.0	that's if you want to divide everybody up that's your way to divide it up some people come at you
0:05.2	with a fear-based mentality which is rooted in resentment and anger and upset and ghosting and you know
0:11.5	all that and some people come to you with the love-based mentality which is compassion and
0:16.2	kindness and directness and gentleness and all and loving and all the good things.
0:22.5	That's really the only two groups.
0:36.6	Hello, and welcome to their episode of Fadding Mr. Heart the podcast.
1:11.1	I'm Allie, back with my co-host, Rourke. Rourke, hello again. I know. I feel like we just spoke. We know. We did. We literally, we record a Patreon this morning, which, like, usually we don't record Patreon and pod on the same day. Yeah. And so I'm like, shit, like, what am I going to even talk about? I just talk to her. But we do have things that we like earmarked specifically to talk about here. Yeah. Which is good. Okay. I've also gotten significantly more tired since that happened. Oh, no. Okay. That's what's happening on my end. We'll boost the energy. Yeah. Take it until we make it over here.
1:11.9	Perfect.
1:13.4	Okay.
1:17.2	I have a lengthy phone throwing story.
1:18.9	I'm very excited.
1:21.3	You've been holding this from me, gatekeeping, if you will.
1:22.0	Yes.
1:24.2	And I'm pumped.
1:24.7	Hit me.
1:25.3	Okay.
1:32.3	So I've actually really had to consider the correct narrative form for this in the sense that how the story chronologically doesn't quite make sense.
1:37.8	So,
1:38.0	okay.
1:39.1	So I mentioned to you that my friend Matt was dating this 24 year old.
1:44.7	Yes. Right. Yes.
1:45.9	Right.
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