every spouse's greatest fear, right?

That you would find out one day that your husband, your wife, has taken their affections

elsewhere.

They've had an affair.

They've had either a physical affair or an emotional affair.

And it's an atomic bomb that goes off in the life of any couple who experiences that.

And so we've spent a good bit of time thinking through,

where does the affair actually begin in those cases? And how can we, as wise stewards of our

hearts, our covenant wise stewards of our marriage, how can we be proactive in affair proofing your marriage?

So we'll see you on the other side.

So we have walked alongside a few couples that have unfortunately dealt with infidelity and emotional affairs and there is a lot of

obviously regret there's a lot of hurt and pain and trust that's broken and working on rebuilding it

i think that god also is gracious and how he renews the relationship after the fact. But no one wants to walk

through anything like that. And so we believe that there are a few ways that we can be proactive

in order to avoid the situations in order to protect our marriage and affair proof it.

Yeah. So you're watching this, listening to this,

probably with one of three different mindsets.

You're probably thinking,

hey, this might be a good idea just so we're being proactive.

Okay, so if you're in that spot,

then you haven't detected yet or you haven't experienced fractures in your trust yet.

The second maybe potential way that you could be hearing this is you're thinking something's

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