every spouse's greatest fear, right?

That you would find out one day that your husband, your wife,

has taken their affections elsewhere.

They've had an affair.

They've had either a physical affair or an emotional affair.

And it's an atomic bomb that goes off in the life

of any couple who experiences that.

And so we've spent a good bit of time thinking through,

where does the affair actually begin in those cases?

And how can we, as wise stewards of our hearts,

our covenant wise stewards of our marriage?

How can we be proactive in a fair, proofing your marriage?

So we'll see you on the other side.

So we have walked alongside a few couples that

have unfortunately dealt with infidelity and emotional affairs.

And there is a lot of obviously regret.

There's a lot of hurt and pain and trust that's broken

and working on rebuilding it.

I think that God also is gracious in how He

renews the relationship after the fact.

But no one wants to walk through anything like that.

And so we believe that there are a few ways

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