Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic medium,

an animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit,

mystical advice for living your very best life. All right, Turtle and Ravitch. Welcome to the podcast. What are we doing your couples reading about?

All right. Here's our question. My partner and I have been together for 14 years, married for six.

As we age, evolve as individuals, and untangle patterns of codependence, it seems we may need to change our living arrangement,

relationship status, the number of cats in our home, or something else, to remain healthy with one

another. Any guidance on what changes or approaches to change might bring us the most success.

Okay. Now, Turtle, you co-sign this question?

Yes. And is there anything you would add or adapt to it? You don't have to, but just making

space for that? No. Okay. It was pretty general. Hit all the subjects, I believe.

Okay. And, okay, first, 14 years. Congratulations. Fucking fabulous, right?

Thank you.

Wonderful.

Thank you.

And when you talk about this kind of change, right?

Why do you feel like you need the change?

I think I might have initiated it, so it makes

sense perhaps for me to give more context. I think our evolution as individuals, and I will say

mine specifically, like our substance use patterns, we're both engaged in therapy now, which is a

new thing. It has kind of unveiled the ways in which we're pretty codependent.

And I think increasingly, as we've also learned more about neurodivergence,

it's really clear that we have very different somatic needs

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