Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast.

I'm your host Jessica Lignato.

I'm an astrologer, psychic medium, and animal communicator.

And I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

Ginkgo.

Welcome to the podcast. What would you like a reading about? I'm just going to go ahead and read my question. Hi, Jessica. Saying no inside of my relationships is a big growth edge for me. Often I say no too late or with too much caution. And yet, I have gotten

feedback from some family that I'm stubborn, intractable, and approach relationships like it's

my way or the highway. How can both things be true? How do I process this feedback that I'm too inflexible and respond to it sincerely,

while also tending to the parts of me that are, in many cases, overly amenable?

Your support on this would be much appreciated.

Thank you for your heart and your honesty and your clarity.

Sweet.

Okay, let's pull up your chart and dig right in.

You know I'm going to ask you questions, but hold on now.

Yeah.

Okay.

You were born October 31st, 1992 in California.

People don't need every fucking detail at 206 a.m. local time.

And we are looking at your chart together.

So let's unpack your question a little bit.

Family, when you say family, do you mean only your family of origin give you the feedback that

you're inflexible and stubborn or also like your dates and your closest friends? I would say I've gotten

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