594- Is Resentment Poisoning Your Relationship? Root Out Its Source, Move Forward
ADHD Experts Podcast
ADDitude
4.4 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 10 February 2026
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
Melissa Orlov helps us understand how to identify patterns of negative communication in a marriage or relationship, determine the roots of the resentment, and move forward together.
Resources: Resentment in Marriage and Relationships
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Attention Deficit Disorder Expert Podcast series by Attitude Magazine. |
| 0:13.2 | Everyone, I'm Carol Fleck, and on behalf of the Attitude team, I'm delighted to welcome you to today's ADHD experts presentation |
| 0:23.1 | titled, Is Resentment Poisoning Your Relationship, Routed Source, and Move Forward. |
| 0:30.6 | Leading today's presentation is Melissa Orlov. |
| 0:34.1 | Melissa is the founder of ADHD Marriage.com and ADHD and Marriage Consulting. |
| 0:41.1 | Through her seminars, books, and consulting, she helps couples affected by ADHD, |
| 0:47.4 | rebalance their relationships and learn to thrive. |
| 0:51.0 | Melissa has written two books about ADHD relationships, including the ADHD effect on marriage. |
| 0:58.2 | You can reach her at ADHD Marriage.com. |
| 1:02.7 | Feelings of resentment are not uncommon in close relationships. |
| 1:07.4 | Spend enough time in years together, and many couples are bound to grapple with lingering anger and |
| 1:12.6 | disappointment. Of course, there are many reasons for this. Resentment might stem from an unresolved |
| 1:18.4 | conflict, anger issues, an unequal partnership or unequal division of labor, trust issues, or something |
| 1:26.6 | else. In relationships touched by ADHD, |
| 1:30.6 | traits like forgetfulness, poor organization, and weak follow-through can hasten these feelings |
| 1:37.0 | and chip away at intimacy. Melissa will explain how to address these feelings and communicate |
| 1:43.0 | effectively without triggering your partner. She'll tell us how to let these feelings and communicate effectively without triggering your partner. |
| 1:46.5 | She'll tell us how to let go of resentment and start healing. You might want to have a paper and |
| 1:52.0 | pen handy because she'll also guide you in a thought-provoking exercise. So without further ado, |
| 1:58.4 | I'm so delighted to welcome Melissa Orlov. |
| 2:03.1 | Thank you so much for joining us today, Melissa. |
| 2:04.6 | Thank you, Carol. |
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