59: Working Through Codependence... Together
Rise Together Podcast
Dave Hollis
4.6 • 11.3K Ratings
🗓️ 15 August 2019
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
By popular demand, this week we're talking all about codependence - our history with it, how we work to overcome it every day, and what you can do to work toward a more healthy attachment to your partner. We love getting questions and suggestions for topics from you guys because it helps us give you the content you want most! If you have an idea for something you'd like to hear us talk about on this podcast, shout it out to us on social media using the hashtag #risetogetherpodcast.
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| 0:00.0 | Google defines codependency as excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, |
| 0:11.5 | typically one who requires support on account of an illness or addiction. |
| 0:18.0 | Huh. |
| 0:19.0 | Well, that's, I mean, the thing is, we've talked about codependency a lot. |
| 0:24.0 | I've never, ever thought of it being about codependency because of illness or addiction. |
| 0:29.7 | I've always thought of it as being, I am happy when I am seeing you happy in our relationship. |
| 0:38.3 | Yeah, I think for today's purposes in discussing codependency, it is that you, your emotions subconsciously |
| 0:51.0 | are controlled by your partner's emotions. |
| 0:54.8 | Word. |
| 0:55.8 | Like if your partner is mad, it affects your mood. |
| 0:59.7 | If your partner's happy, it affects your mood. |
| 1:02.4 | If you are, like you can't, it's almost like you can't feel any certain way unless they're |
| 1:08.1 | okay. |
| 1:10.0 | And Dave and Rachel Hollis have a long history of codependence. |
| 1:15.5 | We say we're recovering codependence, but the recovery process is ongoing. |
| 1:20.2 | The rest of our lives. |
| 1:21.2 | The rest of our lives. |
| 1:22.2 | Maybe we'll be for the rest of our lives. |
| 1:23.2 | Yeah. |
| 1:24.2 | Hi, I'm Rachel Hollis. |
| 1:28.2 | And I'm Dave Hollis. |
| 1:29.3 | And we're married. |
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