Carlos is into non monogamy, bdsm, swinging, polyamory and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he decide to be non monogamous and poly? How did he get into bdsm and swinging? And what does he like and not like about both those worlds? Tune in for all the details including how when he moved to this country he decided to be non monogamous and has been ever since, the dated first girl he dated who agreed to being non monogamous and got him into bdsm, the spanking parties they went to, how and why the non sexual nature of bdsm world was disappointing to him, the sex camps he attends and what does down there, how and why he joined fetlife, the local munches he attended and exactly what they are and what goes down at them, his relationship with a female slave and why he wasn’t into being her “master,” the difference between the slave and submissive roles and why he prefers to be with a submissive, how he discovered he loves seeing his partners with other men, why and how both of them getting gastric bypass changed their relationship, how and why they went from non monogamy to polyamorous and how that ultimately ended their relationship, how he met his current “nesting” partner, how and why they have been poly from the start, why and how they are in a hierarchical partnership and why thats frowned upon in poly community, how she’s bisexual and he labels himself heteroflexible, his best male friend in college and how he now hooks up with him, how and when they started going to swingers clubs and how him and his current gf enjoy foursomes and group sex, their recent mfm threesome with a guy they met online, why he prefers hooking up with experienced swingers as opposed to newer people, all the partners they have on the side and how it all works, how they sometimes get jealous and how they work through it, why he prefers mmf threesomes over ffm threesomes, the swinging bdsm events he goes to and what goes down at them an a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of most of my female guests + get early access to all episodes + hear anonymous confessions, join my Patreon. It's only $5 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast Want to be on the show? Email [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Have something quick you want to confesss? OR Call the hotline at 347-420-3579. Your voice will be changed, so you remain anonymous Want a private convo with me that won't be aired on the show? All calls are private, confidential and anonymous. Click here: https://calendly.com/strictlyanonymouspodcast/45min Sponsors: Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea! 30 day FREE TRIAL https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon MagicMind 20% off use code: STRICTANON at https://www.magicmind.co/strictly and for the next 10 days get 56% off when you subscribe! Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Youtube https://www.youtube.com/c/StrictlyAnonymouspodcast Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices