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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

578 - Getting Back Together with an Ex: Great Idea or Terrible Idea?

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Relationships, Education, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2026

⏱️ 62 minutes

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We're back and refreshed after a week off, and for this week's episode, we're talking about getting back together with an ex. We'll be discussing some personal stories and reasons why we feel the urge to get back together with past partners. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play!,Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.,Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORY,Take Beducated's 2-minute quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness at beduc.at/pd2619-multiamoryWhatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello, Multiamry listeners. We are going to Italy for this next somatic poly retreat.

0:06.8

Myself and my colleague, dance and movement therapist, Orit Krug, are going to be headed to Piedmont in the stunning northern Italian countryside to hold our next somatic retreat specifically for polyamorous folks.

0:20.1

That's going to be taking

0:20.9

place September 22nd to the 25th, 2026. And also we're going to be staying at this absolutely

0:28.2

gorgeous former winery. So if you've been feeling like your brain is on board with non-monogamy,

0:34.6

but your emotions are having a hard time catching up, or if you've been

0:38.8

struggling to access feelings of joy, of safety, of pleasure, or if you're just feeling isolated

0:45.1

in your non-monogamy journey and you want to sit on a beautiful sun-drenched terrace or wander

0:50.9

through the vineyards with other polyamorous people without having to explain yourself,

0:54.9

then please consider joining us. We handle all the details so that you can be totally present. Your

1:00.7

accommodations are covered. You don't have to clean or cook. All of your meals and snacks are

1:04.8

taken care of. We really want people to feel as cared for as possible. You are welcome to show up

1:10.0

solo or to bring a partner or bring all of your partners if you want.

1:14.8

We offer sliding scale pricing, so if cost is a concern, please don't let that stop you from

1:19.2

applying.

1:19.8

We're happy to explore options that work for your financial situation.

1:23.5

We have limited spots that do fill up early, so go to multi-amory.com slash retreat to get more

1:29.9

information and to apply. Again, that's multi-amry.com slash retreat, and I hope to see you in Italy.

1:40.7

Something that a lot of people don't necessarily think about when they're getting back together with an X is that when you get back together with someone, it's like there's this big job of repair that has to be done.

1:53.4

Like it isn't quite just a light switch on and off, right? It's not like, okay, great, we're back together and now everything's fantastic.

1:59.3

There is, I think, a laundry list of not just the work of figuring out, hey, how did things go wrong before? How can we change that? But also, like, there could be just straight up pain of like, yeah, you dumped me, right? Or I dumped you, you know? And like we're sort of, it's not quite the same as building from scratch with a new person. It's like you're almost

2:18.2

starting a little bit in the negative. Welcome to the Multiamary podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily.

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