#57 BEING A BOY MOM, LIFE AFTER THE BACHELOR & THE ENDING OF GIRLS NIGHT WITH RAVEN GATES
Literally, Not OK with Alexis Waters
Alexis Waters
4.5 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2026
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
The reunion you’ve been harassing me for is finally here.
Raven Gates is back and we go ALL the way in. From the shark costume night one of The Bachelor… to Paradise chaos… to the Hollywood era that almost swallowed us whole… to the Girls Night podcast days where we were drinking Casamigos in a haunted studio… to the two years I was in a deep depression and calling her every single day.
We talk about the reality TV drinking scandal, why we both ran away from LA at the exact same time, how she carried me through my darkest season, why your 30s are elite, marriage advice that will humble you, boy mom life, anxiety spirals, Botox, Christian music breakdowns… literally everything.
It’s 10 years of friendship, growth, unhinged memories, and real life in one episode.
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| 0:00.0 | It's really big, but I'm like, this is the biggest thing that's been to my mouth in a very long time. |
| 0:05.6 | Okay, we're going to start in five, four, three, two, one. |
| 0:11.2 | Ravengate, Scott Shock. |
| 0:12.8 | Welcome to the literally not okay podcast. |
| 0:15.5 | I am so excited. |
| 0:17.5 | The day has finally come. |
| 0:19.2 | Thank you for having me. |
| 0:21.2 | The amount of DMs that I receive on a weekly basis for a reunion. |
| 0:27.5 | Oh my gosh. |
| 0:28.5 | Is literally not okay. |
| 0:30.1 | Like, so if people don't know, Raven and I had a podcast called Girls Night with Raven and Alexis during COVID. |
| 0:40.5 | And we were literally not okay. |
| 0:42.8 | And we have to talk all about that. |
| 0:44.5 | We're going to talk about The Bachelor. |
| 0:46.1 | We're going to talk about like what life is like now. |
| 0:48.4 | Our friendship. |
| 0:49.3 | Our friendship, which is coming on 10 years. |
| 0:52.2 | It's crazy. |
| 0:52.8 | Everyone asked me, they're like, who are you the closest with? |
| 0:55.7 | I'm like, Alexis, there's no question. Like, we live in Dallas together. Like, we're, we're inseparable then, |
| 1:03.2 | but like now it's like, it's so much deeper. It's deeper. It's deeper. We call each other like at least |
| 1:09.3 | once a week and I'm like, Raven is like the best person to go to for advice. Like anything I'm going through, you know how to calm a woman, you know, like you have a way of calming me down. You and Tyler have that like spell. Brittany too, Brittany Madrid. She has a way of just like speaking to my soul. Yes. And it's a rare occurrence in my life. And like I have a really bad ADD. Like I remember doing the podcast with you and like I was zoned in. Like when you were speaking, it was like a psychosis that I was going through. I always said that. You were like a snake that I could do a whistle tune to and you just came out like listening yeah no that's us I love our |
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