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The Amy Porterfield Show

#563: How To Drop The Guilt When Saying “No”

The Amy Porterfield Show

Amy Porterfield

Entrepreneurship, Business, Marketing

4.95K Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Why do entrepreneurs like Brendon Burchard, Jenna Kutcher & Jamie Kern Lima say “No” more than “Yes” One of the most important skills for a business owner is their ability to say “No” to ideas, opportunities, and offers that are out of alignment with their mission. Now, I’ll be honest -- this is much harder than it sounds, and it’s something that I’ve really struggled with over the years.  As a notorious people-pleaser, I’ve said “yes” to doing things that I don’t want to do because I feel guilty saying no. Not to mention, when you’re a new entrepreneur (and you don’t have a ton of opportunities coming your way to begin with), it can be even harder to turn things down. There’s a quote I love by author Alain de Botton that says, "What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of disappointing others." This, sweet friend, could not be more true. And the good news is, I have a really simple exercise that you can do to determine which opportunities are a “Heck yes!” and those you can politely decline -- and it all comes down to asking yourself a single question.  It’s the same question that some of the most brilliant entrepreneurs out there – like Brendon Burchard, Jenna Kutcher, and Jamie Kern Lima – have used to evaluate what opportunities to embrace, and which ones to pass on.  In this episode, you’ll hear what that question is, along with:   How you can get crystal clear on your mission (and stay aligned with it) What to do when you feel guilty for saying “No” to things Why NOT returning a favor is 100% OK Whether you’re just getting started in business or are a seasoned entrepreneur, this is a great listen – so get comfy and press play on this episode! Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Amy and Online Marketing Made Easy." <-- If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me support more people -- just like you -- move toward the online life and business that they desire. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast. I’m adding a bunch of bonus episodes to the feed and, if you’re not following, there’s a good chance you’ll miss out. Follow now!

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I don't want to run a business where I have foam all the time.

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Like, oh my god, I better say yes to this because I'm really going to miss out.

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Or I don't want to run a business that I say yes to things just to boost my ego.

1:09.0

But at the end of the day, it's totally unaligned with where I'm going.

1:13.8

And I hate to tell you that I have said yes to those things.

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I've absolutely been there not too long ago.

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It's not like something I'm perfect at now or I'm like teaching it to you because I've

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mastered this.

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No, I just got to witness it at a really amazing level.

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And I wanted to bring it here to be like, oh, my friend, maybe this is something you and

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