560 - I'm Solo Poly, But I Want More: Listener Q&A

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Relationships, Education, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9 • 970 Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Today we're tackling two listener questions about being solo polyamorous and wanting a more entangled or anchored relationships, either with existing partners or while seeking such a relationship. We'll talk about the feasibility of escalating existing partnerships, as well as making time for deeper, more entwined relationships while still spending time with existing partners. If you want your question answered on a future Q&A episode, consider joining our Supercast community! Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at paired.com/MULTI.,Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY,Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and keep learning at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Record your own podcast or videos with the same platform as us! Check out multiamory.link/riverside to try it yourself for free.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Support for Multi-Amri comes from Quince. Okay, here's the thing. I don't think I'm a great gift giver, but I do think I'm a good gift planner. Like I will plan literally the entire year in advance. I will save up the entire year in advance for holiday gifts. I will keep notes, running notes the entire year. Anytime I run into something or I'm like, ooh, that'd be a good gift for so-and-so. or ooh, this person mentioned that they really want such and such, right?
0:23.2	I'm a really good gift planner.
0:24.6	However, entire year. Anytime I run into something or I'm like, ooh, that'd be a good gift for so and so. Or, this person mentioned that they really want such and such, right? I'm a really good gift planner.
0:24.6	However, what I'm also doing at the same time is planning gifts for myself as well. Sometimes those
0:29.7	things get a little bit melded together. That is what tends to happen whenever I open up quints
0:34.8	because everything is so well made, everything is such good quality,
0:39.1	everything is such good prices that I'm often tempted to buy it for myself rather than for all
0:44.1	the people on my list. Quince has an amazing selection with great prices like Dedeker mentioned.
0:49.0	They've got your whole list covered from things like Mongolian cashmere sweaters for $50 when you'd
0:54.1	normally pay $200 or more,
0:56.1	or denim, tops, skirts, beanie, scarves, jackets, as well as even home goods.
1:02.7	By working directly with trusted factories that maintain high standards for both craftsmanship
1:07.0	and ethical practices, and cutting out the middlemen and markups, Quince is able to pass those
1:11.8	savings straight on to you. I think last time I mentioned that I had ordered a zip-up
1:16.3	sweater so I could get my Mr. Rogers on, and I have to say, I've been wearing it almost every
1:20.8	day since then. It's amazing in the cold weather and surprisingly warm. I've really enjoyed it.
1:25.6	Find gifts so good. You'll want to keep them with Quince.
1:28.6	Go to quince.com slash multi for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns,
1:34.6	now available in Canada too.
1:37.0	That's QI-N-C-E.com slash multi to get free shipping and 365-day returns. Quince.com slash multi to get free shipping and 365-day returns.
1:45.1	Quince.com slash multi.
1:51.1	I would just advise, like, take pressure off of it.
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