Hi everybody. Welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I'm going to share

with you some of my unconventional dating truths. Before we get into that, I want to make sure that you get my

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So I created a list of 57 unconventional dating truths a while ago in response to an

email from a coach named Rich Litvin. And he wrote his like 50 unconventional truths. And basically

it was an exercise to access your creative ideas and thoughts and things that

you can share with your audience. And so I read that email. I was like, I'm going to do that too.

And I actually came up with 57 instead of just 50. And I want to share them with you. Some of them you may have heard in pieces on different

podcast episodes. Some of them I made some videos about, but you've never heard it like this,

just one after the other. And hopefully they can be good reminders for you or at least help you

think a little bit differently about dating

and change the way that you experience dating. I won't go through all of them today. So this will be

part one. And I'm not sure how many parts there will be because I'm not sure how long it will take

me to go through all of these. But we'll see how far we get today.

Okay, number one is dating is a game that you play with somebody, not against somebody.

Number two, men want relationships. Number three, loneliness means you are lacking, fulfilling connection, not a boyfriend.

So what I mean by that is loneliness is a signal that you need more friendship and connection

and maybe deeper connection with those friends or more fun connection with those friends

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