50% of couples who talk to me do not know their household income.

Money for most is not a source of connection. It's a wedge.

I want to go deep on this. This is actually cool.

In most relationships, there is one money person.

And this is a huge mistake.

How do you get someone who's a warrior to start spending?

You need to learn the skill of managing money,

but you also need to learn the skill of spending money, but you also need to learn the skill of spending

money meaningful. Tell me what to do. I have seven quick steps. It's very easy. First off,

I feel like I can rule the world. I know I could be what I want to. I put my all in it like no days

off on. All right, we're live. We we're meet so the reason i wanted to have you on

was because sean and i were talking the other day and at the end of the episode at like minute 55

we got to the total end and somehow it came up that my wife sarah and i we do this thing that we just

call our monthly money meeting and the way it works is that we like break down our monthly expenses

our income and we also look, our income, and we also

look at our net worth and we talk about how can we spend the next month to like make ourselves

happier? Like what, how can we use like money as a tool? And are we happy with our consumption

and whatever the previous month? And Sean made fun of me and he was like, that's the right, you're running that like a corporation, like a business. And Sean made fun of me. And he was like, you're running that like a

corporation, like a business. And at first, I was embarrassed to say that I'm running my marriage like

a business. And then afterwards, I was like, actually no, like I can love my wife. And that's the

number one reason why I do this. And also, in order to make it run effectively, you kind of have to

run a tight ship like a business or have like business attributes. And you have this book, Money for Couples,

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