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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

548 - Conversations to Have Before Moving in Together

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Society & Culture, Sexuality, Education, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Today we're dusting off an old episode about cohabiting with a partner. In it, we talk about why people move in together, questions to ask yourself about possibly moving in with a partner, and of course, conversations to have with your potential living partner. We also discuss some specific points about non-monogamy and cohabitation, and how to be or choose a good platonic roommate was well. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and keep learning at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Record your own podcast or videos with the same platform as us! Check out multiamory.link/riverside to try it yourself for free.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Multiamary Podcast.

0:04.2

I'm Jace.

0:05.2

I'm Emily.

0:06.3

And I'm Dedeker.

0:07.5

We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.

0:13.4

Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you, and we're here for you.

0:23.7

On this episode of the Multiammery podcast, we're bringing you a hit from the ancient days of

0:44.7

2019.

0:46.9

It's a long, long time ago in 2019.

0:49.4

This was an episode that we recorded about cohabiting or cohabitating.

0:54.1

We had a little bit of a debate,

0:55.3

actually, about how you're supposed to say it, which we'll get to in the episode. But what I

0:59.9

really like about this one is that the three of us were all in very different living situations

1:05.9

then, as we are now. And I actually found when I went back and listened to this that I really

1:10.8

appreciated getting to have that I really appreciated

1:11.4

getting to have that perspective from the me from five, six years ago, compared to the me that I have now,

1:18.5

I guess. Maybe that's a weird way to say it. But so what we're going to do is do a little bit of

1:23.5

a re-edit as well as including some of what was in the bonus episode originally that was

1:29.0

just for our Patreon subscribers back when we did Patreon, that now will get included into this

1:34.8

episode where we're discussing not only what to consider if you're thinking about moving in

1:41.9

with a partner or even a roommate, but also how to make that

1:46.2

experience positive, right? And a lot of that has to do with having the conversations that we don't

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