I think often you have to figure out, does my version of non-monogamy look like my partner's version of non-monogamy?

And is my partner okay with, you know, there being bad blood between metamorphs?

There being the potential that, oh, this person just doesn't ever want to talk to me.

And I understand that, you know, that gets a little messy person just doesn't ever want to talk to me. And I understand that,

you know, that gets a little messy and that you don't want to say like, oh, I don't want to date

this person because their Metamore never wants to meet me. But I don't know. I think you have to

look at a global perspective of what is it that I want to have in my life and what is it that I

don't.

And if this is a constant burden, then maybe there's a misalignment there about the type of relationships the two of you want to be in.

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