540: Celebrating the Sexual Pursuer

Brave Love Great Sex – Couples Therapy Podcast

Cloud10

Sexuality, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

In today's episode, Laurie and George dive deep into the world of the sexual pursuer. They explore the underlying attachment and connection needs of the sexual pursuer and help SPs develop emotional regulation and language around expressing these needs. If you identify as an SP in your cycle and struggle with rejection or disconnection this episode is for you to learn how to; self-soothe and invite your partner into your world. We take care in this episode not to pathologize or diagnose the needs of the SP but to help couples engage in compassionate and effective communication. Intimacy is a shared world between lovers, where tangible attachment is created. If this sounds like you make sure to download and listen to this show! Our book, Brave Love, Great Sex is now available for pre-order on Amazon. Secure your copy today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:51.6	Let's celebrate those sexual withdrawers. It's not an easy job, Lori.
0:56.4	It is not an easy job to keep the aliveness in a relationship, right? I loved your post,
1:03.6	George, your Facebook post. What was it? Sex is what keeps us alive. Emotional connection is what keeps us safe.
1:12.4	I can't remember what you said, but it was great.
1:13.8	Let's talk about it.
1:14.7	Let's talk about it.
1:16.2	Welcome to the Brave Love Great Sex Podcast.
1:19.1	I'm Dr. Lori Watson, licensed couple and certified sex therapist.
1:23.0	And I'm George Fowler, couples therapist, EFT trainer, and retired New York City firefighter. In every
1:29.1	relationship, love requires bravery, especially to turn towards each other when there is a lot of
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