539 | Sex, kink, and communication with Vida Carey

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

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4.7 • 919 Ratings

🗓️ 25 June 2024

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

In episode 539 of ADHD reWired, host Eric Tivers welcomes neurodivergent coach Vida Carey, who specializes in sex and relationships. Together, they dive into conversations about sexuality, intimacy, and the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in these areas. Vida shares her experiences and provides insights on discussing sex openly, defining kink, exploring different relationship structures, and addressing sexual desires in a shameless and authentic manner. The episode emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding personal needs, and fostering intimacy while managing ADHD. Additionally, the podcast highlights resources and support available through ADHD reWired’s coaching programs and virtual community. Navigating ADHD and Intimacy: Conversations with Neurodivergent Coach Vida Carey In episode 539 of ADHD reWired, host Eric Tivers welcomes Vida Carey, a neurodivergent coach specializing in sex and relationships, who emphasizes comfort through humor and candid vulnerability. The discussion delves into the unique challenges of navigating sexual intimacy for those with ADHD, including overcoming societal norms, advocating for oneself, and understanding hyper- and hyposexuality. Vida shares her insights on redefining sex, utilizing intimacy menus, and having open conversations about one's desires. Additionally, the episode addresses the importance of developing healthy communication practices in relationships and offers a humorous yet candid look into making sex a more comfortable topic for neurodivergent individuals. The episode closes with reflections on how neurodivergent couples can better understand and support each other's needs. 00:00 Introduction to ADHD reWired 01:08 Meet Coach Vida Carey 02:36 Navigating Sex and Relationships 05:13 Understanding Kink and Communication 07:31 Advocating for Yourself in the Bedroom 10:16 Exploring Sexual Desires and Intimacy 18:33 Sex Rewards and Intimacy Menus 22:33 ADHD reWired Coaching Groups 28:38 Hyper and Hyposexuality in Neurodivergent Brains 30:44 The Reality of Life and Sex 31:48 Hypersexuality vs. Sexual Addiction 32:49 Exploring Relationship Structures 36:32 Navigating Intimacy and Communication 38:27 The Journey to Intimacy Coaching 41:41 Common Questions About Sex 47:51 The Importance of Communication in Sex 56:01 Final Thoughts and Resources

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0:00.0	ADHD rewired episode 539 since 2014 this has been the podcast for ADHD adults who have
0:09.8	really good intentions and is slightly wandering attention.
0:13.4	I'm Eric Tivers, I'm a licensed clinical social worker and an ADHD certified clinical services
0:18.6	provider by training and a coach by design. I'm your host and I have ADHD.
0:24.7	ABHD rewired is more than just a podcast. You can learn about our coaching and
0:28.8	accountability groups, our virtual co-working community and more, all at ADHD rewired.com. We are wired for
0:36.6	connection and you are not alone. Learn more about our offerings including
0:40.9	our monthly live Q&As get additional resources for every episode,
0:45.1	including links to any resources
0:46.9	we mentioned on today's show.
0:48.3	You could support us on a Patreon, sign up for our email newsletter,
0:51.6	and more. All at-D rewired.com and if this is your first time
0:57.1	at listening welcome don't forget to hit subscribe or follow on your podcast app so you
1:02.4	never miss an episode.
1:03.7	We know the starting is the hardest part, so let's get started.
1:08.3	Welcome back to the episode of ADHD rewired.
1:12.4	Today's guest is Vida Carey or Coach Vida. So Vida is a neurodiverseant
1:18.8	coach who specializes in sex and relationships through humor, candid vulnerability and authenticity,
1:26.4	she gives us the permission we need to talk about sex, sexuality, and relationship issues.
1:34.4	A former high school and special education teacher,
1:36.9	she can make the most awkward subject seem accessible.
1:41.4	Her goal is to educate without shaming and make the world a better place one conversation at a time.
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