533-All Your "Godly" Accomplishments Are Nothing?
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 9 May 2026
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
All Your "Godly" Accomplishments Are Nothing?
What if you could "win" in every area of life… and still lose the things that matter most?
Because according to Jesus, success isn't measured by productivity, influence, money, ministry titles, or getting more done than everyone else.
It's measured by love.
"Love is patient and kind…" (1 Corinthians 13)
That means our marriages matter.
Our tone matters.
The atmosphere in our home matters.
The way we treat our spouse and children matters.
This episode is for driven husbands (and honestly, anyone with a high-achieving personality) who may be unintentionally sacrificing tenderness, emotional safety, and connection on the altar of accomplishment.
You do not have to keep living rushed, impatient, emotionally disconnected, or spiritually distracted.
Jesus can teach you another way.
A slower way.
A gentler way.
A truly strong way.
And it may be the very thing your marriage and family are longing for most.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to DYM Marriage Transformation Coaching. |
| 0:04.0 | Heard in 180 countries top 1% podcast worldwide. |
| 0:08.0 | And we are thrilled that we walk alongside marriages that have been suffering and struggling, |
| 0:13.0 | sometimes for decades. |
| 0:15.0 | Then they come to our work and God changes everything. |
| 0:18.0 | Listen in because you're going to hear transformation stories that are going to give you hope that things can change for you or inspiring conversations with other |
| 0:27.0 | experts or teaching that's literally going to give you practical tools to make your marriage |
| 0:32.9 | better today. My name's Bella Rose. Here we are. Let's go. Heal intimacy biblically. Delight your |
| 0:41.5 | marriage. Hey, hey, welcome. Thrilled that you are here. And my name's Bella Rose, |
| 0:53.3 | author, speaker, coach, trainer. |
| 0:55.8 | It's often what people say is that I'm less of a coach and more of a trainer. |
| 1:00.3 | Because I dag, nabit, tell you what to do. |
| 1:02.6 | But I consider that kind of like coaching, you know, that's more like the, you know, |
| 1:07.0 | football coach who's getting people in a huddle and yelling at him a little bit. |
| 1:13.7 | You know, it's interesting. |
| 1:14.7 | Okay, just so you know, I coach men and women very differently. |
| 1:18.7 | I didn't even realize necessarily how differently, but people have definitely pointed it out to me |
| 1:23.4 | that it's different because, you know, men and women in our work are coached separately |
| 1:29.2 | because we need different things. |
| 1:31.6 | We need to be encouraged, corrected, edified. |
| 1:36.6 | We need a different level of energy. |
| 1:38.8 | We need tenderness, women. |
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