531-Do We Call What is Holy "Sin" (and What is Sin "Holy")
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
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🗓️ 25 April 2026
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
Do We Call What is Holy "Sin" (and What is Sin "Holy")
When I was first a believer, I had a very strong view of what was right and what was wrong.
I had a sense that anything I was uncomfortable with was definitely wrong.
After a lot of of life…and sadly time away from Jesus…and God healing and redeeming my journey, I've come to realize that there are things I am uncomfortable with, but are not necessarily sin.
And there are things I am comfortable with that aren't sin necessarily.
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Quote from a recent Coaching Program graduate:
The program is great! I love the focus on self-growth, personal responsibility and spiritual practices that unlock God's love in our heart and the heart of our spouse. God truly used this program to change my life...
I have a softened heart toward my wife now. I desire to love her the way God desires. I went from a miserable and sexless marriage to a wonderful and passionate sex-filled marriage!
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Because you and I are not meant to be led by what's comfortable.
We are meant to be led by the word of God.
Today, I want to tackle some really important topics that will help, I think, clarify topics and themes that often trip Christians up.
And it makes people love each other less.
In your marriage. And your friendships. And your schools. And your workplace.
We want to be defining our life in our direction.
We do not want to be defining how we should behave and what we should do and what we should think simply because it's the opposite of what the world does.
We need to define ourselves by what God wants us to be doing.
So today, I'm hoping that when you listen, you will gain a level of freedom in your heart and thoughts that you maybe didn't have before listening.
Because God calls us to freedom.
In our relationships, in our thoughts, and in our hearts.
That's why he came to set us free.
And I want that for you.
Let's get into it.
Blessings,
Belah
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PPS - Here is a quote from another recent Coaching program graduate:
My biggest marital struggle was resentment and poor communication. I was so unhappy.
My husband is my best friend, and I didn't want to be around him or be intimate...
[Now,] our communication is so much better.
I learned to be vulnerable which showed him I trust him. In return he feels safe to be vulnerable with me.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to DYM Marriage Transformation Coaching. |
| 0:04.1 | Heard in 180 countries top 1% podcast worldwide. |
| 0:08.0 | And we are thrilled that we walk alongside marriages that have been suffering and struggling |
| 0:13.1 | sometimes for decades. |
| 0:15.1 | And they come to our work and God changes everything. |
| 0:18.1 | Listen in because you're going to hear transformation stories that are going to give you hope that things can change for you or inspiring conversations with other |
| 0:27.0 | experts or teaching that's literally going to give you practical tools to make your marriage |
| 0:32.9 | better today. My name's Bella Rose. Here we are. Let's go. Heal intimacy biblically. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:46.7 | Hi there. Welcome back to the show. I am thrilled because we have got something really important to talk |
| 0:54.1 | about that I think |
| 0:55.2 | trips a lot of people up. People that are earnestly trying to follow Jesus and they miss really |
| 1:01.3 | big things. And so I want to dive into some of the lives that the enemy has infiltrated |
| 1:08.7 | into the Christian culture, Christian church, what I see when I walk |
| 1:14.2 | around in Christian spaces, if you are a Jesus follower, it's something that each of us need to |
| 1:20.5 | make sure that we are rightly dividing what is true and what is false, making sure that we are aligned with scripture, not the customs of this world, but also not |
| 1:32.4 | throwing out everything that's happening in this world because we're just assume if it's |
| 1:37.9 | happening out there, it must not be God's way. |
| 1:41.2 | So that's essentially what we're going to talk about before we dive into it. I invite you |
| 1:47.0 | to invest into coaching this spring so that you have an incredible marriage by summer. And I mean |
| 1:58.1 | invest. I mean financially, but I mean emotionally. I mean spiritually. The Bible talks about where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. We have given a lot of scholarships away over the years and still do. But I will say that anytime I have ever given a full scholarship away, the level of |
| 2:20.3 | investment in their heart is far lower than somebody who pays full price. It's true. It's a |
| 2:27.9 | spiritual reality. Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. So I invite you, |
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