530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight : 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 20 May 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Today we're bringing back a popular episode on relationship conflict. We're talking about three different patterns that show up in conflicts, how to recognize which one is showing up for yourself, and discuss some ways to disrupt the pattern and create new choreography with your partner(s). Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - sliding scale pricing available, use code MULTI when you apply at www.multiamory.com/retreat. Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at https://prettylitter.com/multiamory prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Join our amazing community of listeners at https://multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand https://joshandanand.bandcamp.com/music. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast/ @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website https://www.multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Support for Multiamary comes from Quince.
0:03.4	As the two of you know, I just got back from holding a magical somatic retreat for polyamorous folks on the mythical magical island of Crete.
0:12.3	However, when I first landed in Crete, something that was not very magical that happened is that my suitcase came off the luggage bag, baroken.
0:23.7	Oh, man.
0:24.5	I know.
0:25.0	I was very unhappy about it.
0:26.7	Fortunately, the people at the Creek Airport were very kind.
0:29.5	However, obviously, I couldn't get a replacement there in Crete on short notice.
0:33.5	And so when it came back, I thought, like, oh, I'll see what Quince has as far as travel items.
0:38.7	So I went ahead and ordered Quince's expandable medium check-in suitcase in their very stylish, dark green color.
0:45.1	And it arrived a couple weeks ago.
0:46.7	I've already taken it on multiple trips because I do travel a lot.
0:49.6	And so I've gotten to immediately put it through its paces.
0:51.6	And the quality is really great, especially for the price point. And trust me, I've had to go through many suitcases at many different price points.
0:58.8	We've gone through many suitcases. And this one from Quince has been impressive.
1:02.7	Everything with Quince is priced 50 to 80 percent less than what you'd find its similar brands.
1:08.5	I got a really cute jumpsuit and a fun dress that I wear all the time,
1:13.2	and especially now that summer is coming up in New York, I can't wait to wear them. And they're
1:17.2	beautiful. Like they feel really nice. I love the fabrics that Quince uses. And by working directly
1:22.8	with top artisans and cutting out the middlemen, Quince gives you luxury without the markup.
1:27.7	And Quince only works with factories that use safe, ethical, and responsible manufacturing
1:32.6	practices and premium fabrics and finishes.
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