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Delight Your Marriage

53-Why Peni (Oral Sex) Matters to Your Marriage

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7589 Ratings

🗓️ 30 July 2015

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Hi there! Belah here. It’s just me today. And I will be talking about one of the most important, yet oftentimes frowned-upon, aspect of marital intimacy: oral sex. I have previously tackled the issue of oral sex and whether or not it is dirty or sinful in episode 14. That was where I first coined the term peni, as a sort of euphemism for oral sex. My dear listeners, it is important that we pay attention to your husband’s high priority needs, and guess what… Peni is one of them! On this episode, I discuss, point by point, the importance of peni in your marriage and how it affects your relationship in general. Listen in and let’s work together to bring delight into each of our marriages!

 

All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/53

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and

0:07.5

inspiring wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.

0:13.8

Here's your host, Bella Rose.

0:16.7

Hi there, this is Bella Rose, and I want to thank you so much for joining me today.

0:21.3

I've got a great episode for you today, and I want to dive into why Penny matters to your marriage.

0:28.9

Penny is my word for oral sex, and you'll listen to why I have that name in a little bit.

0:33.9

But please listen in for the eight reasons that oral sex is hugely helpful for

0:42.0

your marriage. And I want to talk about why you might have some reservations in going for it.

0:48.4

And then I want to give you a free resource. So definitely listen for the end to know how to get that

0:54.0

because this is,

0:55.4

this is a huge topic. It's hard to talk about, but it's really important. So listen in and I'll

1:01.0

catch you on the other side. Okay, well, let's dive in.

1:14.2

First of all, what I'm really aiming to do with you today is to walk you through some of the

1:20.4

reservations that you might be having and get you past them and to a place where eventually

1:27.1

you're understanding why oral sex, as I call it,

1:31.1

Penny, would be something that would be helpful to incorporate into your marriage. And then also,

1:38.9

I want to talk about why it matters to your husband. And I'm going to talk about his high priority needs or desires

1:46.4

and your high priority desires as well and finally I'm going to talk about why this flavor of

1:52.9

intimacy is a particularly pleasurable and special delight for your husband. So let's go ahead and dive in. Now,

2:03.4

the first reservation that you might have is the question, is it dirty? Okay. And now I have

2:09.7

touched this on this before in episode 14. You want to go back and listen to that. That's

2:15.7

where I reframe it. But basically, I want to ask you and listen to that. That's where I reframe it.

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