53. How to Love Yourself & Let Yourself be Loved with Ashley C. Ford

We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2021

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

1. Why Ashley says we have to talk about what hurts if we’re ever going to heal. 2. Glennon asks Ashley about the power of apologizing—and why Ashley says we must begin apologizing to the people we love. 3. How many of us are really good at loving other people, but often struggle to let ourselves be loved. 4. Why Ashley says that nothing has ever given her more peace and power than knowing that she doesn’t really need others to believe in her—because she believes so deeply in herself. About Ashley: Ashley C. Ford’s New York Times best-selling memoir, Somebody’s Daughter, was published by Flatiron Books in June 2021. Ford is the former host of The Chronicles of Now podcast, co-host of The HBO companion podcast Lovecraft Country Radio. She currently lives in Indianapolis, Indiana with her husband, poet and fiction writer Kelly Stacy, and their chocolate lab Astro Renegade Ford-Stacy. Ford has written or guest-edited for ELLE Magazine, Slate, Teen Vogue, New York Magazine, The New York Times, Domino, Cup of Jo, and various other web and print publications. Book: Somebody’s Daughter Instagram: @smashfizzle Twitter: @iSmashFizzle To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	welcome back to we can do hard things one of our favorite people in all the
0:13.1	land is back with us today you know her her name is Ashley C Ford and we're
0:19.6	just going to jump right in we were talking about a couple of things first of
0:23.3	all um I just remembered this Ashley but you are the first human being to
0:28.4	ever say any words to me about untamed okay sister and Abby do you remember
0:33.9	sitting on the beach in the Florida yes um untamed had been sent sent out to
0:39.1	just some fancy writing people okay so I had I'd gotten no feedback zero
0:45.5	feedback except from like my mom and Abby and sister all of whom thought it
0:49.1	was great okay but I didn't I hadn't heard from and I was not even looking at
0:54.0	social media because I was I would look at Twitter like it was a jack in the
0:57.0	box like I was so scared that something would pop up about untamed and it would
1:00.4	be and you I'd gotten an early copy and you wrote most beautiful thing I think it
1:08.0	was I handed it to Abby on the beach she called sister over and we with the
1:13.3	three of us sat together and Abby read what you wrote out loud to the three of
1:17.2	us it was my first experience hearing from anyone oh cuz she wrote a a
1:22.0	beautiful like review a review which I never do actually I don't notice I
1:28.3	don't write a lot of reviews of books or mention them but yeah and then you
1:33.2	sent me an early essay from somebody's daughter and then I got the actual
1:40.2	galleys and I just after I think a hundred pages I had a while I probably texted
1:44.8	you like 30 times before then but I just remember writing to you and saying do
1:49.7	you know like when you were writing this did you know how magical that what
1:56.8	like did you know that you were writing a timeless piece of art that would
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