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Okay today we're going to talk about the four stages, actually five stages of kind of the sexual

experience.

We're going to talk about desire, arousal, orgasm and resolution and connection.

Yeah, I add connection in there.

We're going to add connection as our fifth and actually our first stage.

And you brought that up, Adam, because I was talking more about a linear model which was

older masters and Johnson's and you brought up the newer model which includes

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