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Money For Couples

52. “He hides purchases from me—and I let him”

Money For Couples

Ramit Sethi

Relationships, Society & Culture, Investing, Business

4.63.1K Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2022

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

Lisa and Jeff are in their forties and have a blended household. They had about a $300k net worth before they were awarded a $1.275M settlement in January of this year. What’s important isn’t the details of the settlement, but that they don’t know what to do with it. She doesn’t trust him—and for good reason. He opens lines of credit and makes secret purchases while also refusing to participate in financial planning, leaving Lisa to carry the burden. She’s looking for a teammate, but he’s happy to simply send her his paycheck and make jokes about their toxic dynamic. They’ve invested the windfall in a few places (yes, one of which is a bad financial advisor), but they lack a vision—and the communication to build one. Before they decide what to do with the settlement cash, they need to be honest with themselves, and with one another. That’s where I come in. Let’s see if we can bring some clarity to their situation. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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0:00.0

Hey, before we get back to the episode, I want to make sure you know about something that

0:03.6

I'm sending out this Saturday.

0:06.4

Have you ever wondered how to use your money to buy back your time?

0:09.9

This is something that people love to talk about, but very few people actually spend their

0:14.6

money to get their time back.

0:17.4

I want to show you 20 ways to buy your time back this Saturday from all areas of life

0:23.2

and all different income levels.

0:25.9

This Saturday, September 23rd, you can only get it at iwt.com slash podcast newsletter

0:32.3

that's 20 ways to buy back your time.

0:34.4

I'm going to show you this Saturday.

0:36.1

Now let's get back to the episode.

0:41.2

You got a windfall.

0:42.2

I want to talk about that.

0:44.0

You said it's seven figures.

0:45.0

Can you tell me how much it was for?

0:46.7

Yes.

0:47.7

So specifically, it was 1.275 million dollars.

0:54.1

So how should we even begin?

0:56.2

This is tough to admit, but let's be honest.

0:59.3

I hide purchases from it and it's for the sole purpose that I don't really have to discuss

1:04.2

the purchase.

1:06.4

I will try to bring something up and he will aggressively tell me no and he will shut

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