#518 – Forgiving When You Can’t Forget
The Sister Circle Podcast
Chrystal Evans Hurst
4.9 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 7 May 2025
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
- Why forgiveness isn’t about excusing what happened
- How to process pain with God instead of pretending it away
- What it means to forgive again and again—even when the feelings don't follow
Highlights from Today’s Episode
- Finding freedom in forgiveness
- Processing your pain to make way for healing
- Growing your "muscles" of forgiveness
Related Resources
- Looking for more on forgiveness? Check out Episode #181, A She's Still There Story.
- Do you need to dive deeper into the mother/daughter dynamic? Listen to this episode on Mending Your Mother-Daughter Relationship.
- In this powerful episode, Kia Stephens and I sat down to discuss Overcoming Father Wounds. Listen here.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hi there. Thanks for listening to the Sister Circle podcast. My name is Crystal Evanshurst, |
| 0:09.6 | and I'm your host. Thanks for tuning in to another episode of the podcast that's designed to help you |
| 0:15.8 | live your life well and to make it a life you love. Listen, you get to choose. So we've spent some time already |
| 0:36.8 | this morning because I believe in recording these |
| 0:40.7 | teachings live so I can look at people's responses and see how they are needing or aching |
| 0:49.0 | for this particular talk. |
| 0:50.9 | And here's the question that I am asking this morning. I am asking this question. |
| 0:57.4 | What is one hurt you wish you could release, but you find yourself replaying over and over again? |
| 1:04.6 | I want you to consider that question because most of us have at least one thing that triggers |
| 1:10.2 | us easily, that sends us running, that causes our |
| 1:15.3 | heart to race, that makes us feel some kind of way. It'll make us angry or sad or scared. It'll put us |
| 1:22.5 | in a reactionary state because it is deep. And for most of us, there's at least one thing we can remember. |
| 1:29.3 | Even if we're over it, we can remember because the stab went so deeply to the core of who we are. |
| 1:36.2 | I want to talk to you today about forgiveness in a very practical way because it's really important |
| 1:42.9 | to me that this year, as I'm talking in my inner circle |
| 1:46.8 | membership about what it looks like to make your mark in this world, you can't make your mark |
| 1:54.4 | if you're not able to move. And you cannot move the way you're supposed to move if you're in |
| 2:00.2 | chains. And if you are dealing |
| 2:02.7 | with any kind of hurt that you have not forgiven, whether you have hurt yourself or someone else has |
| 2:08.4 | hurt you, you are in chains. You may not see it. You may not believe it, but you should actually |
| 2:15.9 | receive what I'm saying to you today because |
| 2:19.3 | unforgiveness will keep you from moving forward. It's just the way it is. You are not free to move. |
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