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The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

516: Matt Mochary - The Components Of A Coaching Conversation, Making Better Hiring Decisions, Holding Yourself (& Others) Accountable, & Giving Useful Feedback

The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

Ryan Hawk

Business, Careers, Management

4.91.4K Ratings

🗓️ 10 March 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Text Hawk to 66866 to become part of "Mindful Monday." Join 10's of thousands of your fellow learning leaders and receive a carefully curated email from me each Monday morning to help you start your week off right...

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Matt Mochary is an operator and an investor. Matt is known as the coach of Silicon Valley's best CEOs. He works with leaders at many companies, including Coinbase, Opendoor, Bolt, and Clearbit. After selling his startup in 1999 for millions, he surfed, made movies, and then developed the Mochary Method to help leaders excel.

  • Matt's life mantra: "Make Money, Have Fun, Do Good"
  • Matt has coached the leaders of Angelist, Brex, Coinbase, Sequoia, Grammarly, Attentive Mobile, Flexport, Plaid, and Reddit.
  • I was not expecting so much emotion from him when talking about coaching. It's evident that Matt finds great joy in what he does. I find that inspiring.
  • The components to a coaching conversation... Hold each other accountable. Declare the highest priority actions. Unpack the problems. Ask them how they are complicit in creating those problems? Help provide solutions & action items for each. Then share feedback.
  • Instead of looking for a specific class, find the best teachers and go to them. That's where the learning happens. In college and out in the real world.
  • "Matt's coaching has brought me clarity, focus, organization, less stress, and higher performance (me and the team). I have always been skeptical of coaches but I think he can 10x the output of a lot of people and I hope he does!" -- Sam Altman (CEO, OpenAI)
  • "It's often easy to make a decision, but it can be much harder to get your team to invest emotionally in that decision." "You create buy-in when you make people feel that they are part of the decision and that their input contributes to the final outcome."
  • "Most companies spend extraordinary resources of time, money, and equity to bring on a new team member, and then almost entirely drop the ball on quickly getting that team member onboarded and up to speed on how the company works so that they can begin making a full contribution. Don't make this mistake."
  • "You create buy-in when you make people feel that they are part of the decision and that their input contributes to the final outcome."
  • "Making a Sale To make a sale effectively, you need to do the following three things: Build trust Identify the customer's specific pain Sell results, not features"
  • "Why did you leave that job?" Was the candidate promoted, recruited, or fired? Get very curious about why."
  • "And when receiving appreciation, there is only one correct response: "Thank you." Do not feign humility by downplaying the act with statements like "It was nothing, anyone could have done it." No. The person is trying to make you feel appreciated. Anything other than "thank you" will rob them of their goal."
  • Meetings – ALWAYS start on time. Don't ever say, "Well let's wait for everyone to join zoom."

Transcript

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0:00.0

So fear is an incredibly powerful motivator, but it's toxic. It erodes the soul over time.

0:06.6

What I found is joy. It's actually a better motivator. It's much harder to achieve,

0:13.2

but if you can help someone achieve it, then they're just excited. They're excited to go to work.

0:19.3

They're excited to dive in and tackle problems, and there's no cost.

0:24.0

Welcome to The Learning Leaders Show, presented by Insight Global. I am your host, Ryan Hawke.

0:36.9

Thank you so much for being here. Text, Hawke, to 66866 to become part of Mindful Monday.

0:44.9

You, along with tens of thousands of other learning leaders from all over the world,

0:49.5

will receive a carefully curated email from me each Monday morning to help you start your

0:55.3

week off right. You'll also receive the tales about how my book The Pursuit of Excellence

1:01.8

will help you become a more effective leader. Text, Hawke, to 66866.

1:08.3

Now, on to Night's featured leader, Matt Moschari, is an operator, investor,

1:13.8

and is known as the coach of Silicon Valley's best CEOs. He works with leaders at many companies

1:21.3

including Coinbase, Open Door, Bolt, and Clearbit. Now, after selling his startup in 1999,

1:29.0

he surfed to make movies and then developed the Moschari method to help leaders excel.

1:36.7

During this conversation, we discuss the three actions of an excellent coach,

1:42.5

and how you can implement them right now, and then how to use imposter syndrome to your advantage.

1:52.0

Then we did a live coaching session at the end of our conversation and focused on how to give

2:00.0

critical feedback and how to receive it from the people you're working with. Ladies and gentlemen,

2:06.4

this one also gets a bit emotional. It's really good. It's Matt Moschari.

2:13.4

All right, Matt. It's great to have you here on The Learning Leaders Show. Welcome.

2:20.0

Thank you, Ryan. Thanks for having me.

2:21.8

Coaching is an interesting word, so people think of it naturally. They probably picture

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