510: Do I Want Hot Sex?

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.5 • 1.9K Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

In today's episode we discuss what couples want more hot or heart-centered sex. Prompted by conversations about their upcoming book, George and Laurie define and explore these two types of sexual connection, how they are different and how they are alike. Withdrawers may find the concept of hot sex too pressure filled and back away from the idea while pursuers might gravitate to that concept. However, we discuss that hot sex can often be a benefit of connected sex. There is more attunement and less pressure or judgement to perform. The formula might just be connecting the heart with the hot. We want to know what you think! Make sure to leave a review and share this episode with your love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:05.0	children. So if you're a woman, maybe a sexual withdrawer, do you want hot sex? Is that something that would
1:13.9	motivate you to think about, you know? Do I want hot sex? Great question. Let's talk about it.
1:23.9	Welcome to Forklay sex therapy. I'm Dr. Lori Watson, your sex therapist. And I'm George Fallow, your couples therapist.
1:31.0	We are here to talk about sex. Our mission is to help couples talk about sex in ways that incorporate their body, their mind, and their hearts.
1:41.1	And we have a little bit of fun doing it, right, G? Listen, and let's change some
1:45.4	relationships. So, George, I know you've been in discussion with lots of friends and couples
1:51.0	and been hearing things from people about kind of, we're writing this book on hot sex, and
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