Hey everyone.

I'm Avian Whitney and welcome to the sexually liberated woman.

There is a question that I get constantly.

I get asked this question the most out of all the questions anyone can ask me, and that question is this.

How can I become a sex educator?

And the people asking this question, they don't just want to know how to become a sex educator from a general sense.

They want to know how they can do what I do specifically, like how to

become a sexuality dula, how to lead people out of sexual shame and into their erotic power

with these very specific methodologies and frameworks that I use with my clients and students.

And I think it's really flattering. I know that people see my clients and students. And I think it's really flattering.

I know that people see my work and are inspired by it and they become attracted to it.

Actually, many of the clients I've worked with in the past have decided to enter this field

because they were so transformed by the work we did together and they

want to help others in the same way. And I love that because we need more sex educators out there.

We need more people doing this important work of not just sexual liberation, but body liberation,

gender liberation, liberation that extends to all areas of

our lives by way of starting at the sexual. So naturally, when I get asked this question of

how do I become a sex educator like you, I'm thrilled because our world will be better served if more of us

take up this cause and do this work of unshaming, empowering, reclaiming, and decolonizing our

sexuality. But here's the thing. I don't think that the people who ask this question are prepared for the

answer that I ultimately give them. Because I think what they're looking for from me is a formula

that they can follow, a sort of map that I can give them that shows them, okay, this is how I got

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