506 - How do I prioritize my career and my relationships? Listener Q&A

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 19 November 2024

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Today we're back with a Q&A episode! We're answering some questions from our listeners and talking about balancing relationships and a burgeoning career, asking a partner to be more visible in their life, and how to reconcile with decisions others make that affect you. If you want a question of yours answered on one of our future Q&A episodes, consider becoming a member of our community! Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORYThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.8	I think there's something really human about wanting to be seen. And I think there's something really human, and I know this may be controversial in non-monogamous spaces,
0:41.7	but I think there's something very human to wanting to feel like you're number one.
0:45.7	And if you're someone who's non-monogamous, you may not need to feel like you're number one all of the time,
0:52.0	but I think we all want to feel like we're number one some of the time. But I think we all want to feel like we're number one some of the time.
0:55.5	And I think this is related.
0:57.0	It sounds like this question asker is saying,
0:59.4	I don't need to be super integrated into their circle, their family, their life.
1:03.3	I don't necessarily have the capacity for that.
1:05.6	But you're human.
1:07.1	Like you do want to feel integrated and visible, right? So I guess that's the first place I want to go is I don't want this person to disavow themselves
1:14.6	of these uncomfortable feelings.
1:16.6	There's not something just wrong with you.
1:18.6	I think these are legitimate ways to feel.
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