Like do me a favor. Stop making excuses and going, I was in this relationship and they did this to me.

Or my mama did this or my daddy or I grew up like this.

Like just like you grown and you could drink, just like you grown and you can get into a relationship.

Just like you grown and you can go get insurance for a car.

Just like you grown and you can go pick a car.

Just like you grown and you can go to college, a car just like you've grown and you can go pick a car just like

you've grown and you can go to college you could change your mindset you don't have to have

to have to have to keep saying because of this this no stop like bro when i tell you ma'n and again

don't get offended if you listening bro there they're prayer lines that I'm not on anymore.

As much as I used to more, because I hear so many men giving me the reason why.

And it's like, bro, use that same energy to overcome it.

Like you're using this energy to tell me, yeah the same amount of energy you could have been over that

To be on it you're telling me all these reasons why your marriage ain't fix it

You're telling me all these reasons why my bro imagine me 54 years old or CEO of

Whatever I do my key is my wife and I'm telling my kids what happened with me and my dad

Brough it does they need to eat. They need opportunities. I'm Secret to Success Podcast.

If you look at people in companies or you look at people in companies, or you look at people in companies or you look at people in marriages, the reason why marriages end in divorce is it's like 10 years, 20 years of just keeping stuff in.

They don't communicate.

They do the same thing.

They don't communicate.

And then they get to that point after 20 years have passed, where it's almost at the point of no return. The list is so large of the things that you don't do that you haven't done over this time that it's almost can't even be fixed. If you think about even the people I work with the police department, they kept their mouth quiet. They had them little break room. That's what you're talking about, the little break room conversations. So they didn't keep their mouth quiet. You just not telling a person you need to be talking to. And even in the marriage, they didn't keep their mouth quiet. They just didn't tell a other person. That's it. And, bro, you know it. We're around, brother? I'm so glad that God has given us this friendship.

Yeah.

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