502 - Help! My relationship is going TOO well! Listener Q&A

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 22 October 2024

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Welcome to another Q&A episode where we answer some questions posed by our lovely listeners! Today we're discussing different levels of sexual attraction among various partners, what to do when a relationship seems like it's going TOO well, and how to communicate to a partner that you want to shift away from hierarchy. If you want your question answered on a future episode, consider joining our awesome community at multiamory.com/join! Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month.Treat yourself to some stories to turn you on or help you drift off to sleep with an extended 30-day free trial at DipseaStories.com/multiGet 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I think that can be helpful as a reminder to be like, hey, these are all the strengths that I can see and these are the ways that we communicate and so these are the skills that we're going to use if we run into a particular roadblock.
0:14.0	It's going to be helpful to have that on your mind because maybe you do run into a roadblock, right?
0:20.0	Like maybe you do run into some kind of disagreement that lasts longer than what you're used to or one or both of you get triggered and the octano of particular fight gets higher than what you're used to that there's going to be a part of your brain that's going to say, oh, this is it, this is the impending doom, now it's all falling apart, right?
0:35.0	And that's not going to help you in that situation, but what is going to help you is finding
0:39.6	a way to self-sooth and to ground into this reminder that it's okay I've got the skills to work
0:45.9	through this we have the skills to work through this together.
0:50.3	Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm
0:56.1	Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the
1:01.1	status quo of the past.
1:03.0	Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating,
1:08.0	or if you just do relationships differently,
1:10.0	we see you and we're here for you. Fongs I know I did.
1:20.0	Forson mademeter for myself to fit.
1:27.0	On this episode of the Multiamery Podcast,
1:30.0	we are back for another listener Q&A episode. We're discussing three different questions that we've received from you are beautiful, wonderful
1:38.8	listeners.
1:39.8	We're going to be discussing varying sexual attraction to different partners if a relationship
1:45.3	might be going too well and how to tell a partner that you don't want to do hierarchy anymore.
1:51.4	There's a lot of good ones coming up today. We're excited to talk about all of these.
1:56.7	Also, if you are interested in learning about the communication tools that we reference on this show all the time, especially during these Q&A episodes,
2:05.2	check out our book, Multiamery, Essential Tools for Modern Relationships,
2:09.9	which covers our most used communication tools for all types of relationships.
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