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The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

#50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

3.8899 Ratings

🗓️ 1 May 2024

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship!

Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relationships. In this episode, you will hear all about how Venus was introduced to cuckolding, starting her cuckolding blog and podcast, the reality of cuckolding in a healthy relationship, how cucking can bring you closer to your partner, why it is a male-driven fantasy, and so much more!

Venus then shares some advice and steps for anyone wanting to try cuckolding before explaining the challenges of finding a bull (third partner) and safety recommendations. We even discuss cuckqueaning, hotwifing, fantasies that don’t involve sexual intercourse, whether or not size matters, sexual denial, and the ‘vanilla’ sex life of a cuckolding couple. Finally, Venus tells us why cuckolding is a bad idea if you think it will "fix" your relationship. This episode is filled with some amazing insights into the wonders of cuckolding so be sure to tune in now!

Key Points From This Episode:

• How Venus discovered cuckolding.

• Why she started a blog and podcast about cuckolding.

• What cuckolding is in reality for people in healthy relationships.

• Her first experience of ‘cucking’ her partner and how it deepened their connection.

• Why cuckolding is not cheating and why men may enjoy being cuckolded by their partner.

• What compersion is and how it ties into cuckolding.

• Venus shares advice for any couples wanting to try cuckolding and the steps to starting.

• The challenges of finding a third partner (a bull) for a cuckolding relationship.

• Venus gives us some safety recommendations when trying out cuckolding.

• Why creating too many rules that become hard to follow is problematic.

• Cuckolding versus cuckqueaning and what hotwifing is.

• How to fulfill your partner’s cuckolding fantasies without actually sleeping with another man.

• The impact of making a comment about size during a cuckolding experience.

• Venus tells us what her size preference is when it comes to sex.

• Sexual denial in cuckolding and how most cuckold couples have a robust sex life together.

• Why cuckolding is a recipe for disaster in a relationship already littered with problems.

Quotes:

“[Cuckolding] is not so much about just your partner watching you or listening [to] you sleeping with somebody else because that's what everybody thinks it is. It's actually really a kind of special loving relationship.” [0:05:20]

“[Cuckolding] is like art, you can sculpt it exactly the way that you want, and it does not need to look like somebody else's piece of art.” [0:11:54]

“The fun part about being the woman in a cuckolding situation is that you really do feel like you have the power and the ability to have this effect on someone that is profound.” [0:20:25]

Longer Quotes:

“If there are any new couples listening out there thinking of making this list of rules, it's okay to have them. But just keep in mind that it may not be realistic to have all of those rules. I think what's most important is that she's safe, and she's comfortable, and that she's enjoying herself. What that looks like should really be up to her.” [0:20:04]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Venus — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/

Venus Linktree — https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress

The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/the-podcast

Venus Connections — https://www.venusconnections.com/

Venus on X — https://twitter.com/CuckoldressV

Venus on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/venuscuckoldresspodcast

Dr. Justin Lehmiller — https://www.sexandpsychology.com/about-dr/

Tell Me What You Wanthttps://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958/ref

‘Does Size Matter?’ Bad Girls Bible Survey — https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I've never had someone listen on the phone while I'm sleeping with another guy.

0:04.4

I was nervous about it actually.

0:06.5

And so I went into the hotel room and I put the phone on and obviously the guy I was with

0:11.8

knew that this was my cuck boyfriend.

0:14.9

And I just thought it was going to be a good time.

0:17.1

I had no idea that this was going to really open up something that was truly amazing.

0:27.0

This is the Bad Girls Bible Podcast. I'm your host Sean Jameson and this is the place where I interview

0:37.3

experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you how to dramatically improve your relationships and have more enjoyable sex more often.

0:47.0

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1:00.7

moment they are released.

1:06.7

Venus, thanks so much for coming on the show. I'd love if maybe you could tell listeners a little bit about yourself

1:10.9

and how you discovered cockleding and embraced that lifestyle.

1:14.8

Sure, thank you so much for having me on the show.

1:17.2

I'm so happy to be here and to talk about my favorite topic,

1:20.7

Cuckholding.

1:21.7

You know what? I didn't even know what cuck holding was. Like I had never heard the word, didn't even like I have a clue, even though I was in like sex positive circles, swingers, communities, and stuff like that.

1:33.4

But I had never heard of it.

1:35.0

Nobody had talked about it before.

1:37.8

It wasn't until I matched with this guy on Tinder.

1:41.4

And on my profile, it said, I have no intention of being monogamous because I knew I didn't want to be monogamous but I also didn't really want to be in a swinger's

1:50.0

relationship. I didn't really know what I wanted but I just put that on my profile and he must have been like, oh, this sounds like a good woman to maybe like cuckling.

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