#49 Deep Throating Tips, Becoming A Hotwife & Being Confident Riding Your Man With Casey Donatello
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
Sean Jameson
3.8 • 899 Ratings
🗓️ 24 April 2024
⏱️ 63 minutes
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Summary
Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today’s episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sexual lifestyle that she finds most fulfilling. We also discuss how she found a partner who aligned with her vision for life and sex and how they deal with jealousy, communication, and rule-setting as they cultivate partner-sharing experiences. Casey also offers practical wisdom on entering the Hotwife lifestyle, pleasing your partner orally, and embracing all aspects of yourself through nudism, content creation, and fulfilling sexual encounters. Tune in to hear all this and more from today’s candid and sexually empowered guest!
Key Points From This Episode:
• An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle.
• Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage.
• Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured.
• Rule-setting and the feedback process.
• Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle.
• Why it’s essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner.
• Casey’s opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job!
• Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty.
• Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters.
• Advice for building confidence while riding your man.
• Why Casey doesn’t edit any of her content.
• How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence.
• Tips for women who are hoping to squirt.
• Casey’s complex journey into the lifestyle.
• The story behind Casey’s four books.
Quotes:
“[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it’s hard for people to understand how three people isn’t always the same equation. But it really isn’t.” [0:05:50]
“It’s like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed.” [0:08:26]
“There’s no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It’s just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it.” [0:19:06]
“A lot of times, people don’t want to talk about sex when they’re having sex, but that’s the best time.” [0:30:53]
“If you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don’t let somebody hurt your body because you don’t want to hurt their feelings.” [0:31:22]
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Casey Donatello — https://caseydonatello.com/
Casey Donatello on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/caseydonatello.official/
Casey Donatello on X — https://twitter.com/hotwifelife869/
In Bed Podcast — https://caseydonatello.com/in-bed-podcast/
In Bed with Strangers — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CQT1R15/
Scarlet Surrenders — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PYX8DQB/
Scarlet Swings Higher — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RZVKQ3M/
Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I was good at giving blow drives, right? But deep-throating was not something natural to me. I was afraid of it. I didn't think it was possible. I had this weird idea that I was going to either choke or suffocate on a cock, which sounds ridiculous, but when it's in your throat and you can't breathe, you're just like, oh my God, how do people do this? |
| 0:20.0 | So we actually did training sessions where we would just practice me. this is the bad girls |
| 0:22.8 | where we would just practice me breathing. |
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| 1:02.2 | released. |
| 1:03.2 | Casey, thanks so much for coming on the podcast. |
| 1:07.0 | Hi, thank you for having me, I'm very excited. |
| 1:09.4 | Awesome. I'd love if you could tell her listeners a little bit about yourself and how you discovered |
| 1:15.2 | and embraced the Hot Wife lifestyle. |
| 1:18.0 | Sure, so when I was in my early 20s, I actually discovered the lifestyle and I was having an affair with my |
| 1:26.6 | boss at the time so very scandalous start to the whole lifestyle and we were playing with girls and kind of soft swap |
| 1:35.8 | with couples a little bit, but we didn't get too far |
| 1:39.2 | into things because we were not in a healthy relationship as you can imagine you know and |
| 1:46.2 | primarily we went to lifestyle clubs on Saturday nights that was kind of our |
| 1:51.9 | thing we would go to parties, hook up with people, not really form |
| 1:56.4 | any friendships or ongoing connections. And when we broke up, I went back to being vanilla. I thought I thought okay you need a partner to do this I can't do this on my own and I |
| 2:07.4 | went back to vanilla dating not for a very long time |
| 2:15.0 | getting to getting about it. |
| 2:18.0 | and I just felt like it was calling to me. |
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