5-What Sex Means To A Husband with Jay Dee
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 19 February 2015
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
Hi there! Belah here. Today I have Jay Dee talking about his story. Part II
Jay Dee founded sexwithinmarriage.com/ to help Christian spouses in two ways:
1) to dispel the stigma often associated with talking about sex within the Christian context, and
2) to use that new freedom to discuss sex within marriage, facilitating positive change in Christian marriages in order to further glorify God. He's been married 13 years, has 4 kids and 1 new baby almost here(!).
He shares the truth about how men feel about sex and even how long a husband can go without it. You'll hear about the meaning men associate with lovemaking! So, we're coming into the conversation where Jay is telling me about the role he played in turning his marriage around.
All the links, resources, and show notes available at:
http://delightyourmarriage.com/5
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Delight Your Marriage, Episode 5. |
| 0:03.7 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and |
| 0:09.2 | inspiring wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage. |
| 0:15.5 | Here's your host, Bella Rose. |
| 0:26.6 | Hi, this is Bella, and I'm so glad that you're joining me again today. I hope you're doing well and I am doing actually really well. We had our rest day yesterday and for those of |
| 0:34.4 | you that don't know, our church actually really encouraged us to do this. |
| 0:39.6 | And it's really taking a day off a week and spending it with your family or your loved |
| 0:45.6 | ones and just kind of having no agenda, just really focusing on rest and relaxing, |
| 0:52.7 | spending time with God and contemplating, just getting a chance to kind of |
| 0:56.9 | pause life and enjoy. So it's been a really wonderful thing we've been doing, I guess, for |
| 1:02.7 | maybe a year and a half now. And it's just been an amazing part of our marriage and our lives |
| 1:08.1 | together. So anyway, yesterday was that for us, and it was also |
| 1:12.5 | our Valentine's Day celebration since my husband was working on Valentine's Day. But we had a |
| 1:20.2 | great time. We got a sitter for our older boy, and we went downtown and caught a movie. I don't know. |
| 1:25.9 | I can't tell you how long it's been since I've watched a movie |
| 1:28.3 | in a theater. So we took the baby, but he was actually pretty good. He slept for most of it, |
| 1:35.3 | and he woke up during part of it and cried, so I put him on my chest and then he fell asleep, |
| 1:39.6 | so it was great. But anyway, so glad that you're here. I want to jump into the rest of the interview. |
| 1:46.3 | This is the second half of the interview with J.D., with sex within marriage. |
| 1:49.9 | Now, the first part of the interview, that's episode four, so you can find that at delight |
| 1:55.2 | your marriage.com. And he really talks about the sexlessness in his marriage and the pornography addiction that really |
| 2:03.2 | wreaked havoc on their relationship together for the first years of their married lives. |
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