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On Purpose with Jay Shetty

5 Ways To Reduce Helplessness in Difficult Times & How To Improve Your Relationship With The News

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

iHeartPodcasts

Health & Fitness, Business, Mental Health

4.828.5K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2022

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm How many times have you heard bad news first thing in the morning and then end up feeling bad for the rest of the day? Or how about reading a bad comment online and feeling restless about it? The news that we consume everyday can highly affect our mental health which can result in us feeling stressed and helpless. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how to reduce the feeling of helplessness and how we can improve our relationship with the news. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 00:28 The feeling of helplessness 02:17 The Seligman Experiment 07:24 Step #1: Choose when & where you consume news 10:28 Step #2: Expose yourself to good news 12:24 Focus on the things you’re doing well 16:53 Step #3: Find your role in the community 18:52 Step #4: Practice self-care 21:58 Step #5: Pray for courage Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!

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0:00.0

I read a study a few years ago that said we're exposed to more tragedy today in 24 hours

0:06.3

than we were in our whole lifetime 25 years ago. Just think about that for a moment.

0:17.8

Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the number one health podcast in the world

0:22.1

thanks to each and every one of you that come back every week to listen, learn and grow.

0:27.6

Now today I want to address a theme that I believe is on all our minds and all our hearts.

0:35.1

When I've been speaking to people, whether it's on Zoom calls, meetings, bumping into you all on the streets,

0:41.5

the word that I've heard repeatedly is helplessness. What I am understanding from listening to you all,

0:50.2

on social media comments in stories is a feeling of a lack of control, a lack of influence,

0:58.2

and feeling like a sense of the world experiencing a downward spiral. Now raise your hands if you're with me,

1:06.8

if you've been feeling that way not along, if you feel that way, I know a lot of people right now will be saying,

1:13.6

thank you so much for talking about this, thank you for raising it. It could be what's happening in the political landscape,

1:19.0

it could be what's happening in the economic landscape, it could be what's happening right around the corner from you

1:26.1

potentially, and I wanted to address this theme of helplessness because I think often we understand,

1:36.5

or hopefully we understand that it's expected, that it's normal, but we don't understand it deeply enough

1:43.5

and we don't know what to do with it. But the first thing I definitely want you to understand

1:47.9

is that it is not surprising that we feel this way. When we see the events, the decisions that are being made,

1:56.5

they can be highly discouraging, they can be highly disheartening. So if you're feeling this way,

2:02.8

I want you to know you're not alone and there's nothing wrong with you. It's not like you're broken or you need to be fixed

2:09.0

or some part of you needs to be mended or you'll mad at yourself for feeling that way, a lot of people are feeling that way.

2:17.8

So the idea of learned helplessness actually comes from tests on animals, but we find that human conditioning is similar.

2:28.8

So in 1965 Martin Selegman and his colleagues were doing research on classical conditioning,

2:37.1

and this is the process by which an animal or human associates one thing with another.

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