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The Spiritual Perspective

5 Ways To Get Your Partner to Change (Without Them Knowing)

The Spiritual Perspective

Light Watkins

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.9981 Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

You’ve asked nicely. You’ve asked not-so-nicely. You’ve journaled, meditated, and maybe even forwarded them that one relationship reel. But somehow, your partner still isn’t getting the hint. It’s like they’re resistant to changing. And they get defensive or shut down whenever you bring it up. You’re left wondering… Is it me? Is it them? Or is this just how we are together? Can I do this for the rest of my life?? In this week’s Spiritual Perspective, we’re diving into what to do whe...

Transcript

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0:00.0

This episode of the spiritual perspective is about how to use your spiritual Jedi mind tricks

0:05.4

to get your partner to change for the better.

0:09.2

We've all heard it before. People don't change unless they want to change. But what if that

0:17.7

person is your partner? And what if their behavior or characteristics are causing problems for the relationship?

0:24.1

Do you leave or do you defy the laws of physics and try to somehow force them to change?

0:32.1

We've all been there.

0:33.2

If only they would do XYZ differently or start behaving in ABC ways, we wouldn't have any problems.

0:40.8

And I'm not going to BSU.

0:42.0

It's mostly true that people don't change.

0:45.2

But the good news is that all hope is not lost.

0:49.2

There is something that you can do to inspire change.

0:53.3

And that's what this episode of the spiritual perspective is about.

0:56.7

How to use your spiritual Jedi mind tricks to get your partner to change for the better.

1:04.1

This is a five-step process.

1:06.4

And if you follow each step in order, then you can indeed get them to change. But if you skip a step or if you

1:14.0

try to rush the process, you may end up pushing them further away. And the final step, that's the

1:20.4

one that solidifies the whole thing. But only after you implement the first four steps, because each

1:27.1

step builds upon the last one.

1:29.2

And most importantly, as with all matters in the spiritual perspective, the solution doesn't

1:34.2

start by blaming them or by making them responsible for the problem.

1:39.9

The solution starts with you, actually.

1:43.3

Okay, what do I mean by that?

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