5 Things Narcissists Say In Arguments When They Are Losing

The Narcissists' Code

Lee Hammock

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 18 June 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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What are 5 Things Narcissists Say In Arguments When They Are Losing? In this video you get the perspective of a diagnosed narcissist on things narcissists say and DO when they are losing an argument to you.

I'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions

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0:00.0	So what are five things that narcissists will say to you during arguments? Like when you're going back and forth with the narcissist, when you're in the heat of battle, what are five things that might come out of their slick, narcissistic mouth? That's what we're talking about today, y'all. Of course, if you're new here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist myself, and I give you an inside look at the mind
0:24.8	of a narcissist, the inner workings of a narcissism, how we think and how we act, what we
0:28.3	do.
0:29.3	So let's hop right into it, y'all, no intro, just straight to the point.
0:33.3	One of the first things that narcissistic people will say to you when you're arguing in the heat of passion, in the heat of battle, one of the main things that they will say to you, they will call you, they will say that you're too sensitive or too emotional.
0:50.1	I know a lot of people that right there will resonate with a lot of people of how a lot of narcissists will just come out of nowhere and open their mouths and say you're way too sensitive.
1:00.0	You're too emotional. Like when you have a point, like you are winning the argument.
1:05.0	And these are things right here that narcissists will say when you're winning in the argument.
1:10.0	If you, if they have a point
1:11.6	then they're not going to do all of this stuff right they'll just say I'm telling
1:14.1	them the truth peace out shut up but when they're losing an argument that's when you
1:18.6	get this stuff right here they'll call you too sensitive and too emotional for
1:22.7	trying to hold them accountable or for having a reaction to something that they
1:27.0	have actually done let me repeat that you for having a reaction to something that they have actually done let me repeat that
1:29.4	you are having a reaction to something that they have actually done they did it they actually did it
1:37.3	they absolutely did it and you have a reaction and they're calling you too sensitive or too
1:42.2	emotional even if you're crying you're not crying
1:44.9	you're not look you're not crying you're not you're not yelling you're not screaming they'll just call
1:49.4	you too sensitive and too emotional that's one of the main things they'll say that's how they'll go
1:57.3	about doing it right there y'all another thing that you get a lot narcissistic people, what they will say to you in the heat of an argument is you remember that wrong.
2:08.4	You remember that incorrectly.
2:10.3	That's not how that happened.
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