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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

5 Signs Your Friendship Is Toxic w/ Jordyn & Alex (Mean Girl Podcast)

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

Ted Talks, Self Help, Health & Fitness, Millenials, Gen Z, Toxic, Healing, Education, Zodiac Signs, Kim Kardashian, Mental Health Expert, Violetta Benson, #Pop Culture, Violet Benson, Call Her Daddy, Celebrities, Celebrity News, Comedy Podcast, Single, Expert, Personal Growth, Jewish, Manifesting, Violetta, Personal Journals, Mental Health, Self Love, Breakups, Francesca Farago, Lgbtq, Daddy Issues, Love And Relationships, Dating Advice, Stand Up Comedy, Dating And Relationships, Adulting, Self Improvement, 30s, Lifestyle, Society & Culture, Life Coach, Dating, Comedy, Self-improvement, Female Empowerment, Jay Shetty, Relationships, Being 30, Influencer, Astrology, Creator

4.84.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 March 2024

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

Hey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders.

Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn’t hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships when life stages change or how to detox from toxic pals? We've got you covered! Plus, get the scoop on making friends in your fabulous late 20s. Because, let's face it, friends are the family we choose, and it's never too late to add to your tribe!


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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

01:36 How’s LA?

03:59 Do you make friends easily?

04:21 How has making friends changed over the years?

07:44 People who are able to maintain lasting friendships are green flags

09:51 Does it matter how long you’ve been friends?

15:31 How do you define a good friend?

18:07 Scared to rely on friends too much

21:29 Create boundaries with your friends

23:24 Friendships growing apart as you mature

32:36 If you’re not growing apart, you’re not growing up

35:20 Do you stay friends with your married friends?

39:42 Have you experienced a toxic friendship?

43:06 Choose your friends who will say your name in a room full of opportunities

44:28 Gossiping is false friendship bonding

48:46 If you constantly talk about other people and nothing else

54:51 How did you realize it was toxic?

59:30 She’s my BFF but she stole my ex

01:05:06 What did you learn from a toxic friendship?

01:07:31 How to heal from a friendship breakup

01:15:11 How to make new friends in your late 20s

01:16:43 You will continue to make friends your entire life


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0:00.0

Is it a toxic friendship though if she like hooked up with the guy I was talking to and then like made me the bad guy?

0:08.0

Do you know that you were hooking up with him? Yes.

0:10.0

Yeah, I would say so. I mean that's a bad friend.

0:12.0

Is that toxic though? I would say that's a bad friend. Is that toxic though?

0:13.0

I would say it's a bad friend, but tell me about that.

0:15.0

Yeah, I'm not so sure. I didn't feel toxic, it felt like fuck you.

0:18.0

But it sounds like she manipulated you into making you feel like the bad guy, which is toxic.

0:22.0

Yes, because I tried to confront her about it

0:24.7

and she just looked at me and was like,

0:26.8

and got up and walked off and I was like,

0:27.9

why do I feel crazy?

0:29.0

Why am I feeling insane right now?

0:30.7

The following podcast is a dear media production.

0:33.4

It's a vile event in your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for but see

0:38.4

a welcome to almost adulting. Almost adulting.

0:45.0

Are you ready?

0:47.0

Hi Bastise and welcome to a brand new almost adulting,

0:51.0

the largest self-up podcast and movement your number one

0:53.7

destination for personal growth and mental health I am your big sister and your

0:57.9

host violetta and today my special guests are Mean Girls.

1:02.5

Just kidding.

1:03.4

We are.

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