Statistically speaking, most of you will get married at some point in life.

That's what the studies show us.

Unfortunately, statistically speaking, many of those marriages will not make it.

And statistically speaking, of those that don't make it,

a lot of people will look back and say they were actually warning signs

that they saw early on that this may not be the wisest thing to do,

but they ignored the warning signs.

Because you know this, when you're dating somebody, you tend to want things to work out.

You want to fall in love, you want to have all the songs on the radio,

make sense, you want the relationship to move forward.

When you're dating, you want to be in love.

And if you see something and the other person that doesn't seem right,

your mind says, pay attention, pay attention, pay attention,

but your heart says, love will make it all work out.

What I want to do today is I want to tell you to be wise and to pay attention.

Because there may be some warning signs or what we might say,

some red flags when you're actually going out with someone.

And we want to talk about those red flags today.

I'm going to call this message five signs you're dating the wrong person.

Let's all pray. Father, we thank you so much that you are the God of relationships.

And we ask that your Holy Spirit would guide us to love people well

and to choose wisdom in all of our relationships that all of our relationships would honor you.

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