5 Reasons Why Narcissists Disappear on You
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 1 October 2025
⏱️ 11 minutes
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What do you do when a narcissist suddenly disappears or ghosts you? In this video, Lee Hammock (the Self-Aware Narcissist) explains why narcissists vanish without warning, what it really means when they go “Casper,” and how you should respond when they try to come back.
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| 0:00.0 | So what do you do when a narcissist disappears on you? |
| 0:05.0 | Constantly or one time for one big disappearance, one big ghost thing. |
| 0:10.0 | What should you do? |
| 0:12.0 | How should you as a survivor or a driver or a victim of narcissistic abuse? |
| 0:16.0 | How should you handle that? |
| 0:18.0 | That's what we're talking about today, y'all. |
| 0:20.0 | If you knew here, my name |
| 0:25.1 | is Lee Hammack. I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist and welcome to another episode of the |
| 0:28.9 | Narcissist Code why I give you an inside look at the mind of a narcissist. Let's clear this up |
| 0:34.8 | right here. If a narcissist, and this is my true thoughts right here, y'all, I'm going to keep it. |
| 0:40.8 | We started off with a rant bubble. |
| 0:43.8 | Narcissistic people, if anybody ghost you, if anybody disappears on you, especially if y'all |
| 0:48.5 | just getting to know each other, let them remain Casper. |
| 0:52.3 | If they ghost you in the beginning, let them remain Casper. |
| 0:56.2 | Please, for your own sanity, for your own mental and sometimes your physical health, |
| 1:01.8 | literally let that person remain Casper. |
| 1:04.0 | Yeah, there's not, unless they, unless they got shipped off to some armed services or |
| 1:09.5 | something like that, to the military, military to the navy a clandestine |
| 1:12.7 | mission in the Marines those can be some valid excuses right there's no to me it's very difficult |
| 1:19.2 | to just have a authentic reason to disappear on somebody with no warning right unless you're |
| 1:24.7 | trying to be let now if you're a survivor it's different if you're, if you're surviving somebody and they're being abusive, that's a reason to this to dip. Right. I believe that's a reason you could, that's, that's an active reason you should be able to dip on somebody. If you're trying to survive them, if they're a danger to you personally, I think that you should be able to dip on that person, right? Otherwise, in these scenarios, in these situations, |
| 1:45.2 | I think that if you're not being abusive to them |
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