5 Proven Strategies to Become the Guy Women Feel Nervous Around (In a GOOD WAY)
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 2 June 2026
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
In this eye-opening episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals how to master one of the most counterintuitive secrets to deep-level attraction: becoming the kind of guy women feel nervous around, but in the absolute best way possible.
Mark explains why so many men accidentally kill attraction by being too predictable, too agreeable, and too eager to reveal everything about themselves. Instead, he shows you how to create mystery, intrigue, and emotional tension that keeps women thinking about you long after the conversation ends.
From push-pull flirting and qualification techniques to leaving conversations on a high note and using psychology-backed attraction triggers, this episode breaks down practical strategies you can start testing immediately to become a more magnetic and memorable man.
Key Takeaways:
-Why mystery and intrigue are essential for creating attraction
-How being willing to disagree with women can make you more attractive
-The psychology behind nervousness and attraction
- How leaving conversations first creates anticipation and curiosity
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro
[00:00:27] – The importance of mystery and making women curious
[00:04:00] – Attraction is multi-faceted
[00:06:16] – Strategy #1: You need to be a mystery
[00:08:13] – Strategy #2: Be willing to disagree with her
[00:09:56] – The famous Shaky Bridge attraction experiment
[00:11:13] – Strategy #3: Creating excitement and nervous attraction
[00:13:19] – Strategy #4: Qualify her and make her invest
[00:14:35] – Strategy #5: Leave the conversation first
[00:16:35] – Using push-pull to keep women emotionally engaged
[00:17:40] – Recap of all five attraction strategies
[00:19:17] – Episode Outro
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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| 0:00.0 | One of the biggest things I noticed from guys who are good with women is they're not afraid to be disagreeable. |
| 0:06.0 | They're not afraid to be a little bit of a dick to her. |
| 0:09.2 | And most importantly, they're not afraid for the interaction to go badly. |
| 0:13.6 | Women want that mystery. |
| 0:14.9 | They want to feel a little bit scared around you, a little bit nervous. |
| 0:18.4 | And I'm going to give you guys some techniques today for how |
| 0:21.3 | to make them nervous. |
| 0:23.0 | The Unapologetic Man Podcast. One of the biggest reasons guys fail to get attraction with women |
| 0:29.7 | in that first conversation or first few interactions is because they're not mysterious enough. |
| 0:35.7 | They don't build enough intrigue and they are not a mystery. They don't build enough intrigue, and they are not a mystery. |
| 0:39.3 | They put everything on the table. |
| 0:41.2 | She knows everything about you. |
| 0:42.9 | They're agreeable. |
| 0:44.2 | They're nice guys. |
| 0:45.4 | They go in too quickly, trying to pull her into an outcome that they hope will manifest, |
| 0:50.2 | and then obviously they don't get her attracted. |
| 0:52.6 | One of the biggest things I noticed from guys who |
| 0:54.5 | are good with women is they're not afraid to be disagreeable. They're not afraid to be a little bit |
| 1:00.4 | of a dick to her. And most importantly, they're not afraid for the interaction to go badly. |
| 1:06.1 | And this is probably the biggest reason most guys fail with women is you have an intention in |
| 1:10.7 | mind. You want it to go |
| 1:12.4 | well. You want to yank her phone number. Take her on a date. Take off her pants and take her sex. |
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