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So if you have been married for any length of time, you have likely built up a narrative in your

head about your spouse.

Here are the two most common ones we experience.

Husbands often say, well, our child wouldn't misbehave so much if my wife wasn't so soft and lenient and let them get away with things.

She just coddles our child.

Wives often say, our child reacts and has meltdowns

because my husband reacts angrily, can't control his emotions, and is too harsh. Now, there's likely

truth in each of those statements, but it's not the whole truth. And these kind of narratives

serve to place blame on the other spouse and make

me feel justified in my own actions. But they will ultimately lead to the disintegration of

your family and your marriage and you don't want that. So for Valentine's Day, I have actually

written a Valentine's Day message for each of you and challenge you to say and write some version of this to your spouse instead.

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