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5-MINUTE FRIDAY: The Harmful Potential Of The Word 'Should'

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Emily Abbate

Health & Fitness

51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 16 May 2025

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

Just because someone else does something doesn't mean you should. Talking about an impactful conversation I had this week with Liz Plosser of Best Case Scenario. Plus: Answering a listener question on my go-to running warm-up.

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Emily & Liz's conversation on mornings

Sahil Bloom's Real Life Diet for GQ

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0:00.0

Hey, Hurdlers, Emily Abadi here. You are listening to Five Minute Friday from Hurtle.

0:25.1

I hope everyone had a good week. I had a lot of interesting moments this week and a really special one with my old boss, Liz Ploisser.

0:35.4

She's now a dear friend of mine. We worked at Self Magazine together. And she is also

0:39.8

the creator behind the popular substack best case scenario. I'll link it in the show notes.

0:47.7

Liz and I did it a live the other day to wrap about morning routines. And I was on the other side of the microphone, so to speak for once,

0:56.5

answering questions about mine. When we are exchanging thoughts, she told me that she has a certain

1:03.8

level of guilt lately because she is in this place where she's getting sucked into her laptop early in the morning.

1:14.8

So what used to be a constant for Liz getting to her workout by a certain time now is

1:23.0

typically put off in favor of homing in on a productivity window. In her words, she found that she

1:31.6

was being the most productive, creative at that time of day, but still was experiencing some guilt

1:40.1

over putting off the other things that she wanted to do. And I asked her, I said to her,

1:45.5

why not both? Is this guilt simply a result of analyzing the routine and seeing that it's different

1:55.2

than it used to be? Is there anything inherently bad about getting productive work done first thing in the morning?

2:03.9

And she didn't have an answer to that.

2:06.2

It truly was Liz shoulding on Liz.

2:10.6

And I shared a story with her that I recently sat down with a self-help guru of sorts.

2:17.8

His name is Sahil Bloom.

2:19.7

He has a book out now called The Five Types of Wealth.

2:22.8

I interviewed him for GQ.

2:24.8

And one of his main productivity work windows is literally between what I believe to be, if I'm recalling it correctly, 4.45 a.m.

2:33.6

after he, of course, takes a cold plunge to

2:36.5

6.45 a.m. He's at his laptop during that time period, and he recognizes that it's his most

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