meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Hurdle

5-MINUTE FRIDAY: The Gift Of Solitude — If You Choose To See It That Way

Hurdle

Emily Abbate

Health & Fitness

51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 9 May 2025

⏱️ 10 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Hey, everyone, Emily Abadi here. You are listening to Five Minute Friday from Hurtle.

0:26.1

It feels so nice that it is finally sticking with spring in New York. I feel like everyone I come

0:34.9

across is in an instant better mood, instantly better mood,

0:39.8

since the weather has made a turn for the better over here.

0:44.2

And oh my God, it's just everything we've been waiting for.

0:47.7

Everything.

0:48.5

It's also that time of year when the after-dinner walk, as I will call it, is back in my regular routine.

0:57.5

So now that it is beautiful outside, there is nothing I love more than walking around the

1:04.1

neighborhood for 45 to 60 minutes and then maybe stopping in a park and reading if it's light enough for long enough

1:12.3

at that time or then coming back and sitting outside at my building and reading.

1:18.6

It just feels like there is a distinct amount of time that I didn't have before because

1:24.9

it's lighter out for longer and the weather is nicer.

1:27.5

And there's just more time for me to reclaim for myself.

1:32.3

And last night, as I was sitting and reading, I was thinking about how this is a behavior

1:40.1

that younger me would be anxious about.

1:42.8

I used to feel as though when I was doing something on my

1:46.3

own that maybe I was doing something wrong. And I hear myself say that out loud now. And it is,

1:52.5

it's comical, right? Because there is so much beauty in having that solo time, in reclaiming your solo moments. But when I was younger,

2:04.2

if I wasn't out grabbing drinks with a friend or meeting someone for a workout or going to

2:09.8

dinner or going to a work event and I just had a dead night, a low key night, I would think to

2:16.8

myself, well, aren't you the loser? And that is not how I feel

2:23.1

anymore now as I approach my late 30s. I can't believe I just said that out loud. I feel so

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Emily Abbate, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Emily Abbate and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.