5 Hidden Reasons She Didn't Get Attracted to You
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 8 September 2025
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the truth behind why women sometimes just don't get attracted — even if you thought you were doing everything right. From frame control to emotional impact, outcome dependence, and even simply "not being her type," Mark unpacks the hidden blind spots that sabotage attraction.
You'll discover why attraction has less to do with your resume and more to do with how you make her feel in the moment. As well as the super important four pillars of attraction, you'll learn both what they are and how to apply them when talking to women.
3 Powerful Episodes to Listen To:
1: 3 Secret "MP Gambits" to Tell Girls to Get Them Attracted to You (POWERFUL STUFF!)
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4HLEQrkKzyDGowewH4yYwD?si=05b1d7dc0fa1406d
2: Attraction Building Technique: How to Read a Woman's Mind (SOOOO GOOD!!!!)
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4oPEYOOet3FimFe6o7iBI0?si=79642438cd584dcb
3: 3 Attraction Building Conversation Mind Reads to SEDUCE A HOT CHICK FAST
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3oKAnWXSFd7dMW25oCdrHc?si=c3223281d7544042
Key Takeaways:
- Why controlling the frame is the single most important factor in attraction.
- The role of emotions: women don't care about your resume, they care about how you make them feel.
- How outcome dependence secretly kills attraction.
- The four pillars of attraction and how to leverage them for success.
- Why being too nervous or "nerdy" in your mannerisms makes you lose the masculine role.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode Preview
[00:01:27] – Podcast video upgrades!
[00:02:05] – The #1 reason she didn't get attracted: lack of frame control
[00:04:37] – You didn't elicit enough emotions from her
[00:06:37] – Outcome dependence and being too needy
[00:09:17] – Being uncomfortable, nerd mannerisms, and why exposure matters
[00:11:22] – Pre-selection explained
[00:13:19] – The Four Pillars of Attraction: frame control, value, sexual tension, qualifying
[00:17:15] – Sometimes, you're just not her type
[00:20:28] – Recap & coaching program invitation
Connect With Mark:
Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/
Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/
Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula
About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Did you go out last weekend and you realized that some girl didn't get attracted to you? |
| 0:05.0 | You're like, dude, why didn't she get attracted to me? |
| 0:07.0 | I thought I was doing all this stuff right. |
| 0:09.0 | It's because you didn't control the frame. |
| 0:11.0 | You were way too outcome dependent. |
| 0:14.0 | You're not comfortable enough. |
| 0:15.0 | You have neuromannerisms. |
| 0:17.0 | And most importantly, didn't generate enough emotions in her. |
| 0:21.3 | If you don't lead women through these four pillars of attraction, frame control, value, |
| 0:26.3 | sexual attention, and qualifying, they can't get attracted enough to you to give you your |
| 0:31.2 | phone number, let alone go on a day with you. |
| 0:34.2 | With the right approach, I believe that you can get any girl anytime, anywhere. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. |
| 0:59.7 | What is up, your champions? |
| 1:02.9 | Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. |
| 1:03.8 | Happy Monday. |
| 1:05.3 | I hope the weekend treated you well. |
| 1:10.4 | Did you go out last weekend and you realized that some girl didn't get attracted to you. You tried to do some |
| 1:11.7 | gambits. You tried to do what I speak about in this podcast, but it just didn't work out for you. |
| 1:16.9 | If that happened to you, I'm going to give you five, probably more like seven or eight, because I |
| 1:21.0 | always over-deliver, reasons why a woman may have not been attracted to you. You guys may notice, for those of you watching |
| 1:28.8 | on video, that I am now adding a different camera angle. I'm recording it off my laptop, off my |
| 1:35.0 | Zoom link. What's up, boys? Trying to make these videos a lot more engaging, a lot more interesting |
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