5 Argument De-Escalation Strategies

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9 • 4.3K Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2022

⏱️ 30 minutes

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We all know it... that moment when you feel a conversation take a turn for the worst. Things begin to escalate and a fight seems inevitable. In this episode, Ryan and Selena talk through five ways you can keep the "turn for the worst" from happening. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

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0:00.0	I think whether you've been married for 30 days or for 30 years, every couple knows when the
0:06.3	argument starts to turn for the worst. It's like the milk you left out all night. You kind of know,
0:11.1	like it's turned. It stinks. But you know, you get that feeling like it gets a little chunkier,
0:17.8	a little sour lemon milk. No, but every couple knows when you're talking and you're realizing, oh, this is not just a
0:25.1	conversation.
0:25.8	We're not just disagreeing now.
0:28.3	Now it's turning into an argument because I feel my own heels digging in.
0:32.2	Because you are wrong.
0:33.6	I am right.
0:34.8	I can see that my wife is getting defensive.
0:36.9	She's being really touchy and emotional.
0:40.0	Touchy like you like or?
0:43.3	Reactive.
0:44.9	Maybe maybe a nuclear, I don't know, nuclear reactive.
0:48.4	I don't know.
0:49.2	Anyway, this is, it's turning.
0:51.3	It's happening right now.
0:51.8	It's happening right now.
0:52.9	So in real time, we will talk to you on the other side.
0:56.7	We will give you five ways to de-escalate a fight.
0:59.5	All right.
0:59.8	See you there.
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