You know one of the things that we ask ourselves is where do people learn to apologize

and I think and we both agreed we learn from our parents.

Yeah, you know if little Johnny pushes his sister and his mother says Johnny

Don't do that to sister. Go tell her you're sorry. Little Johnny says I sorry even if he's not.

He's 23.

If he needs to apologize to his wife, what's he say?

I sorry.

We did discover this about 10% of the general population almost never apologizes for anything

and most of them are men and they learned it from their fathers who told them real men don't

apologize. Now we know where their fathers got that. John Wayne, that great theologian,

who don't apologize.

And when guys tell me that, I say,

you know, your dad probably did the best he could yeah so don't go beating up your

dad but your dad had bad information I said real men do apologize and that's and

I say in fact you're never going to have long-term healthy marriage or any

relationship if you don't learn how to apologize.

Dear Future Wifey. Okay scriptually the says, your father has already designed and purposed you.

I experienced an invitation of God this morning. So you gotta become an elite decision-maker.

Elite decision.

He said because you are one fleshly decision away from losing at all.

Eched in my mind is what true submission to Christ looks like.

I gotta maintain that secret connection I have with God.

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